CHEATERS ... whats going through their head?

Question

If the Male does it or female, why do we cheat on our significant other? I mean we could be in the greatest relationship but still end up cheating. Is it temptation? Boredom? I can't figure it out, because on the show cheaters alot of them say " sorry" and "they don't know what happened" How can they not know?

Answer 1

dont feel bad. ive been used cand cheated on and have been used by one of there kids. no i never cheated and no i wasnever perfect its just that i gave my all into both of my past relationships. ima badass and i love to love a woman back but ijsut got my kindness taken for weekness

Answer 2

They know what happened....and anyone who says they don't is a load of carp...everyone has their reasons..from a failing relationship to being just plain horney. When I did it it was because of a failing marriage and I didn't hold back the reason why....and because I didn't hold back we were able to work things out...of course that's when she fessed up about her "adventure".

All in all we are still married going past the 25 yr mark...we may not be the passionate 20somethings anymore but we know what we like.

Answer 3

my husband beat me to a pulp.  I had an affair because I knew this guy would help me and my kids get away   and he did.  That's what was on my mind   safety!!

Answer 4

I don't know what they're thinking but i do know they are not thinking about the person they are with, they are just thinking of theirselves.

Answer 5

the thing going on is selfishness, they like the feeling they get from a new thing, a new s*x object, its exciting and appealing to them, and they haven't got a care in the world about the poor spouse or significant other sitting at home.sometimes its our of revenge,or just plain boredom.so if they are a person who needs constant excitement, and drama in their life they will cheat to recapture excitement they once felt for their mate.

Answer 6

For women, they are able to get more men to get money out of like a  vacuum. They want more Lexuses, more Benzes, more diamonds, more everything. They have many on the wings.

Men want p***y, women want money and jewels, it's a sickening relationship. Sad that men have to succumb to this level.

Without men, women would be nowhere. Every parasite needs a host or else it will wither on the vine.

Answer 7

Because it's fun, until the cheater gets buyers remorse. Haven't you ever been in new love (or lust)? Feels great, but has one heck of a bad side. Haven't you have impulse bought something you had second thoughts about?

I know your type (You are that pretty girl everyone wants, but doesn't really care about deep inside-so either you or both go impulsively into relationships before really establishing friendships). You are actually more of a danger to your future relationships, and wouldn't believe it. Girls who get cheated on all the time become so paranoid that they never trust again, and if a guy feels like he is being taunted with potentially being a cheater, he becomes one if guilty before the cheating. It sounds silly, but it's true (so if you did have a good one, you probably turned him bad from your fears). You probably should go single, no boyfriends for awhile. When you meet the right guy, and become good friends explain to him about all your fears of cheating. If he runs, let him. If he listens, develop trust by any means necessary, even if you have to get counseling for it. Your gut feelings right now are from past ones that will not steer you true for a time to come.

Good Luck!

Answer 8

I haven't cheated, but I am guessing it is something like  "I wish my wife would do this"

Answer 9

Men usually cheat for s*x...Women usually cheat because their emotional needs are not being met. If both men and women had their needs met at home then it is doubful there would be much cheating...

Answer 10

I think everyone is tempted at one point or another, but it's what you do with that temptation...I've never cheated but I'm pretty sure I've been cheated on in the past.  I think some people like the idea of having their cake and eating it too.

Answer 11

well my bf cheated on me then i cheated back. He allows me to right now cause he is on meds and dont have a s*x drive. But why do i cheat! Well i luv the attention, s*x, and emotional attention to.