CONFUSED GIRL NEEDS HELP PLS : / 10 PTS?

Question

ok so i like this one boy right and we have so much in common its kinda scary lol hes also a complete sweetheart we've been friends for awhile now and not too long ago we started talking like that..were not going out cause i told him that i didnt want a bf..but that was before i really got to know him...and he likes me i know it cause he asked me out on date and always wants to hangout..anways i told him that he can talk to other girls if he wants and he asked me if i talk to other guys and what not and i told him straight out im not gunna lie to you but guys do hit on me and sometimes i do flirt back..(was that wrong that i said that btw??) getting back to the point lol hes kinda the jealous type and im not really...hes jealous cause i tlk and flirt w/ other guys but see me and him not even going out im siingle..and so is he...and i asked him if he flirts w other girls when he has a gf and he said that he would never flirt or tlk to anyother girl if he really likes her...and he asked me if i do when i have a bf and i said if my bf flirts w other girls then i can flirt w other guys but if he doesnt then i dont...and now he thinks im not loyal and a cheat..and a s**t..even though i neevr cheated before and im still a virgin so i dont see how im a s**t cause i like to talk and laugh w people...the thing is im really falling for this guy cause all my other exs have screwed me over with dumb s****s..and i have, actually had now , this boy who will obviously never cheat on me...and i tried talking to him but it seems like hes not into me anymore cause i said that...idk i really need advice..should i try talking to him and what should i say? or should i move on..or let him tlk to me..which idk even know if he will ... advice..thoughts..help..something please. 10 PTS TO BEST ANSWER : /

Answer 1

it seems to me hes calling you those names so he could have you to himself in a way. do you get what im saying. but no it wasnt wrong of you to say that and be honest. And believe me i honestly dont think he thinks your a s**t or anything hes just .. upset in a way. you say he really likes you and for you to be like yeah i flirt hurts him and he trys in a way to hurt you back. Dont punish him for your ex's mistakes. Its not fair. I was doing it to my boyfriend and hes so different from my ex's im glad i gave him a chance! he deffinatley likes you though he wouldnt go through the trouble and ask if you flirt if you like other guys and all of that. but if you want to discuss it with him tell him it bothered you that he said those things and it was disrespectful but your willing to give it a go! =] hope i helped~  

Answer 2

i think you shonuld go head and talk to him about your feelings towards him be completly honest about ur feelings let him know that ur falling for him. i think that you should make ur own desicions when it comes to ur bf...meaning if he flirts that doesn't mean you have to flirt to show him ur not like everyother girl.and wait he called you a s**t!! that's MAJOR point lost for him! so like a said go for it and be honest everything u said about him here tell him. i mean if he still doesn't want to talk to you then forget about him there's nothing to lose! :D