CONFUSED and afraid?

Question

***Um...i mite be pregnant be i don't know. Okay here's wat happened..***

-Lost my virginity a week ago (and haven't had s*x since then). It was un protected, BUT he didn't ejaculate.

-The next few days, my stomache made weired noises and feelings

-Few days after that it started feeling like period cramps, but then a few days after (for like a day or two) it didnt hurt, but now they came back and a little more painful

-Yesterday my regular jeans didn't fit me and when i stood up for a whyle i got dizzy.

-When i took a nap yesterday afternoon, i woke up with sore b*****s and when i woke up today they were still sore and hurting.

***WHAT'S HAPPENING TO ME??? Am i pregnant? I'm so confused and scared. BTW i just got my period 2 years ago and it's not regular, but i know it comes in the first 2 weeks of the month and i'm planning on taking a pregnancy test in a week.***

Answer 1

Hopefully, you aren't pregnant.  Chances are, you are stressed.  Good luck!

Answer 2

As everyone else has stated:

If you're going to have s*x, make sure you are ready for the circumstances that come with it.  Chances are that you wouldn't know at this point that you were pregnant.  It's only been 1 week.  But PLEASE keep that fear in you the next time you consider having unprotected s*x at such a young age.

It sounds exactly like PMS: bloating, cramping, light-headedness, sore b*****s...

If you find out you are in fact pregnant, PLEASE see a professional to help you through it.  Remember that unborn babies don't have a choice of coming into the world.  Take care of it (and yourself)

And next time, use protection.  (You can go to your OB/GYN to get on the pill and they can't tell your parents)

Answer 3

What does being 16 have to do with not having pms? Did you learn anything in health class? Of course you could be pms'ing. I have been pms'ing ever since i started my period, at 11 years old.

First thing, why are you afraid now, after chosing to have unprotected s*x? Shouldn't you have been afraid before doing it? If you were, maybe you would have made the correct choice and not have s*x or atleast make the choice and go on the pill and use a condom.

Second, there is pre-ejaculation. Because he didn't ejaculate in you when he was finished, does not mean he didnt' release and little guys in you before then. You can get pregnant with pre-***.

Third. It's only been a week, no way to know you are pregnant.

Fourth, i believe it is PMS, you have all the symptoms of staring your period.

  - you do get period cramps before starting

- your b*****s do get sore before starting

- your jeans do not fit because you are bloated, a very very common and obvious sign you are about to start your period.

I doubt your pregnant, you are about to start your period. If you want to have s*x, get on the pill and use protection.

Answer 4

You do know that it doesn't matter if he didn't ejaculate? Some seminal fluid is released prior to ejaculation.

There's an old joke. What do you call people who use the withdrawal method? Pregnant.

Hope you're not pregnant, but for goodness sake, next time use a condom.

Answer 5

It would probably be too early to feel any pregnancy symptoms and it would certainly be too early for your clothes to get tight. Maybe you're just having PMS. Take a test to be safe. And for goodness sake, stop having s*x until you're prepared for the consequences.

Edit: Sweetie, I don't know what health ed class you've been taking, but 16 year olds can get PMS. The symptoms are moodiness, cramping, bloating, headaches, etc. Maybe read up on it.