I am looking to get answers from all the fathers out there who are paying the CSA more than they can afford! My husband has a child from a previous relationship and has been paying CSA for 3 years! They phoned the other day saying that payments were going up to £57-00 a week! The CSA are not taking into account what bills we have to pay for - mortgage etc! They have said that if my husbands employers refuse to give them any information, the company will be prosecuted! The CSA are literally stealing from us! Is there anything we can do to reduce payments as now having to pay £57 a week means we cant afford to eat, and how is that better for the child when we have him on weekends??? We normally take him to the cinema and do fun things with him, well cant do that now coz they are evil p**s taking stealing w*nkers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How is that better for the child?!?!? My husbands ex has another child from her new relationship and is on benefits for both her kids! Her partner is working and they are not taking that into account. I am not currently working so we have only got one income coming in! Our bills each month come up to £1859 and we only earn £1800 a month! How on earth can we pay £57 to the CSA!?!?! We have tried to pay his ex direct but the CSA say if we dont pay her £57 a week, then her benefits will be reduced by £57! I am in a right mess now! We are trying for a child of our own but with all this stress all the time, how the F**k is this all fair?! Maybe we should just get on with it, have 6 kids and sit on the social, we would most definitely be better off than we are now! The CSA are taking working dads for granted! We spend at least £50 odd pound on the weekends just so that the kid can have a good time, but he will have to stay in doors permanently now and have no food! How the h**l are we meant to live?!?! And please let me know how everyone else is managing to live with the CSA stealing out your back pockets!!
Also if we cannot pay the mortgage, where the h**l is the child going to stay? Maybe we should all just put our points across, give up work and all apply for council accommodation! I mean, my husband pays £100 tax a week, and that is paying for unemployed people to have free housing etc, so we are already paying his ex's rent for her just by paying taxes, let alone an extra £57 a week for her to spend on weed?!?!
So F******d off!!!!! Help me please!
We are going to see citizens advice tomorrow to see if they have any ideas for us but please let me know if there is anything you have done to get the friggin stealing CSA twats off your backs!?!
Thanks in advance for the info!
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