Can't believe i'm asking this...(for guys)

Question

Don't laugh that i'm asking this :s

I just wanted to know if guys care if their girlfriend/spouse is a virgin when they first have s*x.

And if she is do you care if you hurt her during because she is a virgin?

What would you to to make her more comfortable?

Or do you just not care.

Answer 1

I would always let the woman control "it". That way she doesn't get hurt, and I don;t end up looking like the dumb***. =-)

Answer 2

of course i'd care, been with several virgins in my time, they were good

Answer 3

Aw a lot of you guys are really sweet. Nice to know that there are still some decent guys out there. Cheers!

Idk why you put for guys though because girls can answer this just as easily lol. Not all guys care if it hurts, the sweet ones do, the ones who are worth having s*x with care and will make sure we are comfortable (you want to be one of those guys lol).

It does hurt some of us more then others it just depends on the girl. Go slow, listen to her if she says something feels wrong or something hurts and never force her to do anything she doesnt want to do and you will be rewarded with the exact same treatment.

=]

Answer 4

it would,nt bother me, but if she is a virgin then i would know she wasn,t touched.

Answer 5

guys really dont care if the girl is a virgin they just want the s*x but if i was hurting her i would stop if she wanted me to or wat ever she wanted i think u should give me ur number so i can demonsrtat this to u btw im 15 not some 40 year old virgin who lives in his moms basement im just a horney teenager

Answer 6

you should find someone to do it with that its the first time for both of you so you both will be uncomfortable. or just do it with someone who has had experience.  

Answer 7

I'm still a virgin (I'm 15), but this is what I would do, just get her really wet(it won't hurt her that much), and just take it slowly, if it hurts her, I'll stop, when she's ready I'll go on, I'll never force her to do anything she doesn't want to:P

Answer 8

me personally would rather have it be a vergin because it makes me think she saved herself for me and didnt go and do it with a random guy that she was with for a little wile that is now nothing cuz shes married to me

Answer 9

no idea im a virgin waiting for the right girl

Answer 10

i do care personally im 17 and a virgin and i want to have s*x with another virgin find it more sexual and wait ill do is try to go slow and let her get use to the feeling of having it inside and then if she feels good go on

is thatg a good answer and what else can i do to make her enjoy it more

Answer 11

you should always care about the other person during s*x. the best way with a virgin is to stretch them open with your fingers first. Use one finger then 2 then 3 etc.. until they are ready to be able to accomidate your p***s and it will still be tight as heck.

Answer 12

ignore it

Answer 13

i don't mind really, my gf was a virgin when we first had s*x, i let her kind of control things, let her put me inside her and such so she knew when to stop if it hurt her, it was kind of cool actually, huge teaser lol

Answer 14

the first time a girl is never really comfortable so you bare with them but once youve worn them in their one h**l of a ride!