Can't control myself sexually?

Question

I'm nearly 17 and I have a girlfriend I really like. However it seems everytime we are alone one thing leads to another and we fool around. I find it really hard to control myself but when it is over I feel really bad because I don't want our relationship to be so sexually based. I need a drastic effective answer. Please Help!

Answer 1

I have the same problem but its so much harder for my boyfriend. we are young and we arent having s*x again untill we are married but we still fool around and i wanna have s*x sometimes and its hard to control myself, and what happens when i cant and something happens like i get pregnant?

Answer 2

i have the same problem. i cant control myself around her. what should i do?

Answer 3

I understand where you're coming from... I am 18 and can't control myself when I'm with my boyfriend... We still have a long time till we can get married. We don't believe in pre-marital s*x but we have gotten caught up in it and can't get ourselves out. We have told each other we weren't going to do it anymore but can only seem to make it for a few weeks to a month. HELP!

Answer 4

i am 21 and my partner is 25, we are both very attcracted to each other. bacause of our religion and parents we are not allowed to meet and we do meet behind their back but all we seem to do is start to have s*x, we try to control ourselves but we just cant, we still got a long time to get married too. i really dont understand what to do. please give me some advice. thanks