Can't get an erection?

Question

Im 16 in a relationship with a girl, for a couple of months now, were not going to have s*x, but do masturbation together, like we do it to each other or near each other. The thing is I can't get hard when I'm not by myself at home, I mean I got erections randomly in college, outside, but very rarely etc, but a few weeks back I was coming back from a mates house, I was going through the woods, and I thought I might have a w**k in the woods, it's really big and empty and I never done it before so i thought why not try it, I wasn't on a path, so I went into the woods, and I just couldn't get hard. Then other times I've been on msn, and girls have wanted to cam2cam, I could only get semi-erect another to o****m but with my p***s half soft and small.

I have felt nervous when doing these things, I've never really been horny doing them, I'm thinking it's going to be a bit worse with my girlfriend because we know and see it each other, and we know each others friends and that straight away makes me nervous, and I would love to m********e with her, but if I can't get erections on these other times, I'm not going to be able to with her, because girls on msn I don't see it's just fun, but this girl i know in real life.

So what are the tips, tricks to getting over nerves like this, or does it take time?

Please help

Answer 1

You have performance anxiety- you worry about how well you are going to perform with another person watching you.

As the CAP SHOUTER said, stop masturbating for a time and that will make it much easier for you to get aroused and hard when you are with your girlfriend.  So whenever you know you are going to see her later on in the week, don't m********e at all.  That tension helps!  

The other thing that only time and exposure helps with is to remember that as you gain more experience and time with this girl, it'll get easier for both of you to play sexual games together.

Answer 2

You are still young.  You need to give it some time before you start having s*x with your girl friend.  No one is going to give you a prize for losing your virginity.

When you are 18 or 19, you'll be more comfortable with your sexuality.  Meanwhile, enjoy your youth.  Concentrate on doing a really good job at your studies and/or the sports you like.  That will be a better preparation for having a very successful adult life in a several years than having had s*x early on.

If you wait, you'll probably have a much better experience (that you will remember your whole life).  You do NOT want your first experience to be lack-luster since this is what you will then remember your whole life.

Relax -- when you get closer to being a fully grown adult man, you will be able better to deal with this and can find a lady friend who is willing to work with you to have a really great first experience that you will remember forever.

Answer 3

"I mean I get erections randomly in college...."

A sixteen year old in college?

Hmmm......

Answer 4

LOL !!!

Answer 5

wow a 16 year old who cant get hard,and jacks off in woods.LMAO!

Answer 6

DUH DUDE, I KNOW ADZACTLY WHAT IT IS. IT'S MASTURBATION. SPERM IS BUILT UP FRUSTRATION FROM YOUR DAY. IF YOU SAVE IT UP FOR MONTHS THEN YOU WILL BE GET ERECT FAST SO YOU CAN FINALLY UNLOAD. STOP BEATING OFF FOR A LONG TIME AND YOU WON'T HAVE THIS PROBLEM

Answer 7

hmmm.  yo're 16....and you used to get random wood back in college...are you a genius,...or an idiot ???