Can't get over him and i don't no what to do!!!

Question

I broke up with my first boyfriend a couple of weeks ago.

I thought i would get over him so quickly but i really did love him.

I no I'm new to this love thing but i really did love him.

I liked him for over a year and it took me so long to get the courage to ask him out and he said yes.

I was soo happy you would not of believed it but it went down hill.

I acted so fridged but im not and i dont blame him for dumping i suppose iw asn't the great girlfriend. I really want him back i no that i cant. He dumped me because iw as shy and he like my best friend! Its nice to no he will have no chance. But i can't stop thinking about him and im soo angry but so upset and i don't no what to do.

Im scared no one else will want me.

I love him and i miss him.

i need to get over him and i don't no how

any advice?

Im 14 and i finally got my frist boyfriend. HELP!

Answer 1

i agree with ghosthunter,,

toughen up girl!!

if your tough it really does help you later in life.  

Answer 2

love is tough but then you get over it and find another boyfriend

Answer 3

either toughen up or else you're in for a rough 'ride' hun

Answer 4

Go to Ann Summers, get a d i l d o and play with it all day

Answer 5

heyy :)

sorry to hear about ur bf .. i thought this about my ex  it took me a while to get over him but eventually i did.. i know its gonna be hard for you especially if you really did like him , but if he dumped you for your m8 then it sounds like he wasnt a nice person. just because u might have been as u called frigid is also not a reason to dump sumone so if tht was his reason he was obviously just after one thing .. yes guys can be jerks at times .. you need to get the girls round have a movie night nothing soppy tho .. get a load of junk food and just try to take you mind off it .. your friends will always be there to support you so in time you will get over it. also your only young , so just have some fun and when you lease expect it the right guy will come along :)

good luck :)

x

Answer 6

Its your first boyfriend, don't be too upset.  Yes it hurts, but believe me you have to kiss a few frogs (for want of a better word) before you find a prince,  yes, there are princes out there somewhere.  Try not to be strong and don't be too hurt by this experience, and hate to say, but, there will be a lot of others out there just as horrible.  If you were dumped because you wouldnt play!!!!  you are better off without him, you really are.  He really was only out for one thing, and you are better than that.  Take pride in fact you did not go down the road he was wanting.  Well done!

Answer 7

i no wat u mean u just need to go out and have fun