Can't get this stranger out of my head?

Question

i saw this guy once (NOT A CELEBRITY) and he was just everything i've ever dreamed of. i can't say much about him or where i saw him just incase anyone who was there reads this.

but he's all i think about everyday when i wake up & before i go to bed.. it's so ridiculous but i can't help it

i want to get over this guy because

1) i don't know anything about him. i don't even know where he lives or his name.

2) i would never stand a chance with him because he's like super important when it comes to his job & he's just too good for me.

3) i'll most likely never see him again.

but i can't him out of my head. what to do?

Answer 1

upps guess hes out then!

Answer 2

get a bf

Answer 3

Just fill your life with more important things like a guy that is really good for u

Answer 4

mosly what i do when im in, in the same situation like you do,

well i must admit that its hard to do to forget someone that caught every emotion that we have if i may say, but we must,cause we might just get our selves hurt.

so what i do is when he flushes in my thoughts i try to erase him if you know what i mean( instead of him i think things that i can do to make my self happy and busy).

And try to minggle with other people, pray a lot, and be with people that you love.

goodluck to you and take care.

Answer 5

If you don't see him again, the feeling will go away pretty quickly.  You're just longing for what you picture to be the perfect man, and he fit your idea of what that is.  If you ever got to know him, you would eventually be disappointed, because no one is perfect!

Answer 6

enjoy the fantasy while it lasts

Answer 7

with time you'll get over him, or just try to find a guy who looks enough like him.If nothing else works might wanna m********e while thinking of him.

Answer 8

you must be 13 because your acting like it you will grow up one day but i hope you dont do this when your older just play with yourself and think of him you will get sick of him

Answer 9

get over it.

Answer 10

aww sounds so sweet ..

I'm sure if he knew who you were he would like you too - don't say that he is too good for you ..

sounds like there isn't much you can do as you said you know nothing about him ..

Maybe one day your paths may cross again then maybe you could talk to him .. till then i guess theres not much you can do =(

Answer 11

kepe him in ur head so when u look for a b.f. u can fnd one thats like him

Answer 12

man......that sucks.

but everyone is like this..

but trust me....in like a year(?) hopefully you will of moved on and have a new person in your head!!!!

Answer 13

Might help if you understand (as much as anyone can) that there are mysterious forces at work here.  We humans can obsess to a harmful degree.  Some of our actions separate us from the other beasts of the world.  There are neural reactions that are beyond reason, that which do more to LINK us to those critters we regard as beneath us.  Rationally, this guy is, on the surface, all you dreamed of.  Are your dreams so superficial that you can check off the list on a sighting?  What if he were your guy?  Over time, you might find his laugh is a grating bray.  Not only that, but he may laugh at all the wrong things, even worse.  Our instant attractions are what have made it possible for the human race to continue so far, but they aren't even remotely a friendly force.  There was a time when all you had to do was get a little inspiration and drag someone into the bushes.  These are the impulses that have your body talking your brain into just about anything and your brain conspiring to fool you.  I speak from DECADES of experience.  But what are you going to do to overcome this love potion magic attraction?  Heat is one thing and respect is far more important.  You might try fantasizing about him, big fun, and it shouldn't take too long for you to feel somewhat empty, because the thrill is a minute and the lack of substance is a lingering bad taste.  How old are you?  That makes a big difference.  Are you in a relationship now?  Maybe this is some part of you affirming that your present relationship is lacking.  Think more substance and less heat.  Ponder upon why you consider some stranger who behind closed doors might be a cheater and a beater (don't say it's not possible, 'cause I could tell you some really unlikely true stories) to be a thrill.  And why do you consider him to be better than you?  Are you all that you are going to be?  Has time stopped for you?  Just some thoughts.

Answer 14

aw!!!true love that is sooooo sweet!i kid not!u say u r never going to see him again but u just might!and don't think u r never going to be good for him!read a romance book!!!there is a ex.!!!!!!!!but that is sooo sweet just pray to see him again!awwww!sorry!:)))))))))))))))))))))...

Answer 15

I have had something similar happen.  Not sure if I believe in it but the only thing I could think of was that maybe I knew him in a previous life?  A stranger.....that I felt I knew and could not stop thinking about.  The thoughts will pass in time.  Keeping busy is the best distraction.