Can't take my mind off her..IS IT THIS HARD?

Question

this is a very complicated situation.. see this is how it all started off when i was in 3rd grade.. keep in mind im in 8th grade now... this is very hard to explain.. but i ll explain anyway. well then, i moved from where i was living.(jackson)- thats a fake name for the city. so then i moved to georgia city, another fake name.so yea. i went to school there for a long time.. then i realized that this girl that had just moved here, used to live in the same city as me (jaskson) and now we both live in the same city now...(georgia city)... then in 8th grade, i reallly started to like her.. couple of days ago i went to the movies with her...and a 4 other girls.. but whatever. nevermind that.. SHE MOVED!! MOVED AWAY FROM GEORGIA CITY!! AND NOW I CANT TAKE MY MIND OFF OF HER! I TRY TO PUT MY MIND ON A DIFFERENT SUBJECT LIKE NARUTO... BUT ITS IMPOSSIBLE SHE JUST KEEPS popping in my mind... i have a feeling ill never get over her...

Answer 1

maybe you can't keep your mind off her now, but you will eventually, life goes on, you meet new people, experience new adventures, and well she will just be a memory in years to come. Otherwise you could try and keep in touch, email, text or call her if you want. But I suppose to keep a friendship going, two have to make the effort..

Answer 2

Contact her. Find out where she is and reach her. Go get her tiger!  

Answer 3

IT is called puppy love and yes you will get over her...your so young to be thinking that serious.  you need to be thinking about whats going on at the mall this weekend or at the movies with your friends.

Answer 4

with our technology today, there should be at least ONE way to get to her... maybe try to find her email address? phone number? new home address? getting in touch with her is a good start...

don't get too lonely over her absence... you have to find a way and give love a chance... =)

Answer 5

ok calm down!

this is a ususal typical teenage crush, wether you like to admit it or not, so just breathe, remember that you have other things that are also important too in  life, such as friends, school, work, hobbies, family etc :)

x*x

Answer 6

If you're trying to get your mind off her than try a sport, i.e gymnastics. I use gymnastics as an example because you can lose yourself in the moment when you're in the middle of a stunt. Or you could use the burning passion left over to strive to become a better student. My cat just died and in dedication to it(Sounds sad I know but I loved my cat) I'm putting more energy into school and trying to lose weight.

Use the energy that you have for her and convert it into another thing. Eventually you'll move on, its tough, I liked a girl for 2 years than we moved apart, I went through a similar thing but what do you know? When I focussed my love for her into school I got 8 A's out of a Possible 9.

Answer 7

I think you should just stay and touch with her.. write her letters, email or text... You are young and it may pass.. however you may stay friends for a long time and who knows what may happen.