Can't understand why she doesn't listen??????????

Question

Ok a few days ago i posted about my 3 year old daughter and how she doesnt listen i tried everything i talk 2 her we punish her but yet even though we tell her no she disrigards our comment and does as she wants. Is something wrong with her my husband asked today could she be slow why cant she understand after we tell her every minute no. So yesterday we went 2 a friends house 2 for a barbeque she went 2 the bathroom & she was there for 2 long so i went over to check up on her she had the whole restroom full of p**p from the wall 2 the floor toilet, sink & everything. We punished her as soon as we got home. So today i went into her room 2 call her 2 come eat breakfast her room smelled like one of my perfumes so i asked what she had put on; she didnt answer so my 6 year old showed me what she got & what she did she had gotten my deodarant and rubbed all over the carpet & wall & when she turned around 2 look at me she had it all over her hair i dont know how 2 make her understand

Answer 1

Sounds like you have a problem, if you are consistent with punishment etc and that doesn't work take her to your doctors for an assessment, you may be punishing her for things she 'can't help' doing which will make a little girl very unhappy.

Answer 2

Oh i feel you fustration hon, you need to show her that you are the one that incharged not her is you tell her no but you are not keep pursuit it she will think it was just a joke. Nip it on the butt and being consistent between you and your husband.

Good Luck !!

Answer 3

Why did you allow the child to go to the bathroom by herself?  You punish your child for something that is clearly NOT her fault.  YOU should have gone with her into the bathroom and SUPERVISED her actions.  It's not her fault you were either "too busy" or too lazy to do your job as a parent and supervise/monitor your child.  Obviously you don't supervise or monitor your child at home either.  Three year olds get into things that is WHY it is up to the parents to keep an eye on them.  Stop blaming your child and do your JOB

Answer 4

I'm not a Dr or nurse but I do have a 9 year old daughter who had a problem not listening either. But I never had her do any of those things like your daughter. I had  taken my daughter in to see a Dr and he suggested for me to have my daughter see a Child therapy and that helped alot because I found out she has ADD 2 years ago. She loved going there too. Meaning she's not to bad like most kids that get out of hand. She is on medication which is Concerda and that helps her not get so up tide or throwing a fit like she use to. She eats healthy more healthy food and no caffeine at all like chocolate, coke, any sugary food. She understands why now and she does much better in school and has more friends now.Also  if you can have some art work for your daughter like clay,coloring. finger painting, paint brushes any thing to do with art work that will really help to keep her busy. Put these special art work just for her in a special plastic large containers. This is just what I did and my daughter and she loves it! Because is very artistic and she is into horses and I'm so amazed of all her art work and so you will be too. But honestly seek help like I did because it really helped me alot.