Can't *** while masturbating.?

Question

This makes me feel weird saying this but i'll say it anyway. I'm 13 years old and i'm concerned that i'm not yet able to ***. I'm an early bloomer with chest, nipple, armpit, belly hair etc. and i've had several wet dreams so I don't see the excuse of "i'm too young to do it yet" as much help. But when I m********e I don't seem to get that feeling to ***, even after about 10 minuites of it, with or without p**n.. wtf is wrong

Answer 1

well first of all you need to make sure that you are in the mood first. and maybe your just not getting horny enough. do you get a erection? e-mail me if you need any more advice or need to talk

Answer 2

this used to hapen to me somtimes, you just have to relax and and get a fantasy goin or some p**n that gets you pumping and dont stress out because your anxious to get it out, just relax and enjoy the full experience

Answer 3

Exact thing happens to me sometimes too. I'm 15, and sometimes I just have to stop jerking off, because it is just nop happening. Know what I mean? Then another time it takes just a couple minutes or so. Go figure.Need any more help, email me if you want.

Answer 4

Someone to help is a dangerous groomer. Beware

Answer 5

Go to http://www.jackinworld.com and that site should help you out.

Answer 6

It seems that you have the whole package, and with the wet dreams you know that everything is working correctly.  I would think that the problem lies in what or how you're masturbating.  For some reason you're just not stimulating yourself in a way that you can reach o****m.  Practice.

Answer 7

You've got to have the fantasy first > you have to visualize you're naked with whomever you're attracted to, doing exploration, touching each other all over & then in those areas where you really like to be touched, kissing each other, going down on each other, and then doing it.

If all you're doing now is jerkin your gherkin, you'll take forever to blow a load.  Work up a mental picture first.

Answer 8

let it take its time to get you there; it is obvious that you do produce sperm"had several wet dreams" so try not to go at it full force, relax and take it easy you just might be way too focused on it that you are just making it "shy" take a few days off and let it work like it is supposed to.

"to young to do it yet" you mean have s*x?  you sound way to young which means you are not ready for any of the responsibilities that come with this next step of development so just wait you know you can.  

Answer 9

It's possible that masturbating isn't causing you as much arousal as other males. You may also have to experiment on other methods that will allow you more pleasure. The regular method doesn't always work. Go to www.jackinworld.com or www.advancedmasturbation.com for tips on how to increase pleasure. Try not being concerned about it either, for this will hinder ejaculation. If the body is frustrated or concerntrating on something, it won't preform right. Hope this helps.