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Can ANY one help me understand, please?

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i know this is long, but please, try to bear with me.

i was with this girl that i have been talking too for awhile now off and on (about a year). and we were together last night. things started out okay, but it all happened so fast. we were going out a few weeks ago but then she had called it off because she wanted time to think. just last night, she calls and tells me she has been thinking of getting with me again, and wanting to be serious about us. so i went to see her, and we talked, and we went to her house and did some things.... (if you know what i mean) lol, anyway, while this was happening, i was trying to tell her i thought we were moving too fast. but i could'nt find a way to tell her because i was nervous, then she told me she thought we were moving too fast and we both agreed. as i was taking her home, i noticed she was looking at me all upset, and i asked her if i was bothering her or some thing, and she wouldnt answer. when i droped her off, her whole attitude had changed. she even took my phone to go through my texts msgs. and i felt like she was trying to find something of mine to use against me so i got upset. i don't have anything to hide, but i felt as if she should trust me and she got upset with me because she felt i should have let her go through my phone. when i finally dropped her off, she was looking at me again like i'm doing something wrong, and when i gave her a kiss, she says "so that's it?" like i wasnt doing enough. i mean, i opened her door, i held my hand out to help her out like a gentleman, i offered to walk her to her door, and it was like she thought i did everything wrong. so i got upset and i said i'll see her later, by the time i got to my car, she sent a text saying she didnt want to be with me again. she said a break would be good for us. and i still told her i felt the same way about her regardless. is she playing games? what does she want from me? does she even have feeling for me? i know this is long and i appreciate anyone who read this far, but i dont understand her at all. please help. i dont want to loose her over something i can fix and that can make us better.

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  1. Sounds to me like she has high expectations out of you and not herself. She is expecting more out of this relationship and living in some kind of fantasy land. It is what it is and no more than that. These women who think their boyfriend is Prince Charming coming to rescue her from the fire breathing dragon are living in another world. I don't expect anything from my wife at all and she's the same way with me most of the time. Maybe you didn't compliment her enough or told her what a good time you had and can we make plans later on. Maybe she felt like you used her ( Wam, Bam, Thank You Mam ) sort of thing. Women are very sensitive when it comes to fooling around because they don't want their feelings hurt or a broken heart.  

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