I am 20 years old. As a result of a rape, I have genital herpes and HPV. I am very depressed about it. I want to wait to have s*x again until marriage. However, is that realisitic these days? Are their any men out there that would be willing to wait? I don't want them necessarily to be virgins, just willing to marry me before I have s*x.
There is a man that I like. We just started seeing eachother and he is talking about a potential future relationship. However, he keeps asking about s*x and how I like s*x. What should I say to him? Should I just explain that I don't want to have s*x before marriage so he can find another gf if he is not OK with that?
Also, do you think my future husband will break things off when he finds out I had genital herpes. I was planning on telling him after we get engaged. In the perfect world I would tell every guy on the first date just in case it went far, but I know I couldn't trust them to keep it a secret. So far no one knows about this except my doctor and my therapist.
What do I do? Is there a man out there that would be willing to wait for me? My dream is to have a husband and children some day. Can I still have my dream even though I have genital herpes and HPV? I will mention that I was never diagnosed with herpes, I just have the symptoms. I had 1 outbreak.
Please help me.
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