Can I cheat back on my husband. Is it worth?

Question

Just to pleased my self ...

Answer 1

yes why not, but cheat on him with me.

Answer 2

No, it's not worth it.  If you cheat on your husband you will feel guilty and then start to doubt yourself and the role you played in your husbands infidelity.  This is a time that you need to be strong and see if you can forgive your husband, and if not, then you need to let him go, either way is going to take a lot of strength.  All cheating will do is make you feel bad about yourself and if he finds out he will freak, sure this may be what you want, but the result will be devastating.  It will cause more damage to your relationship and you probably wont be able to survive, because now neither of you are trustworthy.  Hurting him to relieve your own hurt never works, it only makes you feel more alone, because he will pull away even more and possibly leave.  Take this time to evaluate your relationship and work on your self esteem.  you will get through this, be strong!

Good Luck.

Answer 3

since m a guy, i think most guys will welcome u to cheat!!.y?..cos one or more lucky guy will get the chance to sleep with u..but what will the guys think of u after doing the deed?..i think u r smart enough to know the answer

Answer 4

no, not worth it

you will only really hurt yourself in the end

leave him if he cheats and do well

that is the ultimate revenge

Answer 5

Only if your trying to get rid of me.

Answer 6

No, it won't do you (or your husband) any good. If he has cheated, get a divorce.  

Answer 7

Can you? I would imagine you are capable of it (most people are). Those with morals, integrity, and a conscience however wouldn't consider it.

Is it worth it? You have to decide if throwing away your marriage is worth it...if becoming a low-life cheater yourself is worth it...if the time it takes to get your karma back in balance is worth it...if the guilt is worth it (provided you have a conscience)...

For me, it wouldn't cross my mind. Two wrongs don't make a right and I'm a MUCH better person than to lower myself to cheating.

Do what works for you...

Answer 8

If you wanna please yourself that bad, go ahead.

chances are you'll regret it.

Answer 9

Yes you can cheat on him. The question is can you live with yourself after you do it? I think that only a self serving  self centered person would do this to another.