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Can I do a quick nikah without telling people?

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Can my fiance and I invite his parents and my parents to a park. get an imam to the park. and then just get our nikah doen like super quick? ofcourse with two witnesses and stuff! but will this be halal? To surprise out family with a nikah?

they are dragging on wedding preparations and its going too long and me and him just want to get married...y'kno?

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  1. Why don't you just tell them you want to have nikah done now.  You can still have a wedding for friends and family.  It is quite common for people to have the nikah done and a party later.  

    May Allah bless your marriage.


  2. Yes obviously, youve got both the families needed [ witnesses , check]

    youve got the Imam [ check ]

    You say he's ur fiance, so I assume that you both are already engaged and that both the families are aware of, so its not haram..

    Good luck!!!!

  3. Yes U can as Long as Imam and 2 witness are present on the site ! Then Thats Perfectly fine !

  4. Well in that case get the witnesses and the imam to the park.

    After you can announce it at a nice party to satify the rest of your family since they really really love you.

    Best Wishes

  5. Yes u can but tell your parents before and then you all go for your nikah

  6. its technically fine to do that...but who would not want a wedding...and u guys dont want to regret things in the future when u looked back and rushed....and with all due respect...if u guys want to hurry because of the s*x...u guys waited how long as virgins..u can wait a little more...and im sure ur family wants to celebrate..so have a wedding...on my wedding....both families couldnt be happier...so think it through and good luck

  7. Did you have a wali , wolf?

    didn't your family disown you.  And you married this guy just 17 days after converting?

  8. yes,no problem in that

  9. No.  You have to announce to the community and to both sets of parents that you intend to get married.  Plus as a woman you NEED a wali.

  10. Bismillahi Rahmani Rahim

    Salaam Alaikum wa Rahmatullah

    As long as you fulfill the requirements of marriage, there is nothing wrong with this.  If your father, who is your guardian (wali) agrees, then go right ahead.  This can even be a source of blessing for you if you save money that would have been unwisely spent on a big wedding.  Have a simple nikah, then have a simple walimah (celebration dinner) and concentrate on the important things - like developing a strong marriage with your soon-to-be husband, inshAllah.

    Fi Aman Allah,

    Nancy Umm Abdel Hamid

  11. as a parent of two daughters I can tell you that would not be a nice surprise for me.  The point of the wedding is to celebrate, for you, your spouse and the two families.  It does not have to be a huge extravaganza, but what you are proposing reminds me really of people who go to city hall.  For the sake of your parents, plan something nice.  

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