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I hope if you click on this you can get a history of my situation.
Bottom line is after a month long break, (it has been 2 full months since I moved out...) I met my ex for a cup of coffee. My goal was to not bring up the past but make her feel loved and appreciated...
I the coversation she said she wanted to be on her own, find herself, focus on herself, etc. and gave only a small clue that she would get back together in the future...
Question? I brought up a recent event that I thought we had a good amount of fun doing, and her answer was more like "it was fine, it was companionship...but not love, I want to feel love, to feel loved..."
I took it in stride (remembering that I had a good time, and did feel the love...but somehow I need to do more to make her feel loved?????
Maybe have been more romantic? Attentive? I thought that was a good day for us...
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