Can I make my ex girlfriend come back to me?

Question

My ex girlfriend, Y, broke up with me 3weeks ago. It was due to her not feeling love anymore. She just couldn't feel the love. And we both agreed we started a the wrong timing as both of us were not really committed. We had a mutual break up and am friends for now. After the break up she find me irritating as like seems I'm like stalking her for some reason. But after a good talk few days ago and everything is back to normal. She asked me to forget her and let nature takes its course and if we are meant to be together. We'll be together one. I've bought rings for my previous r/s before. And when the ring/stuffs got broken or lost, it means the r/s can't last. For my r/s with her, I lost the ring once and found it back. She partially agree with me maybe that's a sign that we might get back together, but don't be so superstitious. I really want to have her back again. So what should I do? She just seem the one I'm finding. Help!

Answer 1

IF, she wants to be with you, truely with you it will happen.  Since you both agree on the break up only time will tell.  I suggest you let her go ang take it from there.  Being friends is one thing, trying to impress her is only applying a band-aid to a more serious wound.  

Answer 2

i think she sounds like a very smart person,so if i were you i would back off,but u no mayb call her once a month,n give her time to call you back,,n if she really falls back in love with you it  will b because she really loves you,if you keep pushing her she will not even want to talk to you,and in the mean time dont sit by the phone and wait for her call cause it may not ever come,try to go out andjust b with other people u never no u may end up finding a different true love,,peace

Answer 3

back off a little. She told you she wants to let things go its natural way and if you are supposed to be together you will be. So wait and see what will happen. Getting too close will make her feel like you are choking her.

Answer 4

I've gone through this 3 times over...maybe 5, but two I don't count. The reality to the situation is that you're holding onto hopes with one person who is obviously not as committed to the idea of being with you as you are to them. It seems quite normal for this to happen nowadays, and it's a tough thing to battle.

The thing you have to ask yourself, is "Why do you want her over someone else?" Be harshly honest, and don't let it fall to just feelings or criticisms of people you've never met not matching her.

It's not easy to move on, nor find someone new if there's still that residue of an ex clinging in your mind. Because of this, it's always going to sour your ability to love someone else in the way they, and you need to be loved. Work on getting over this feeling, and if you two really are right for eachother, you will come together and things will be much better off.

Answer 5

Sounds like she is giving you the run around and you are smothering her,  it seems she does not want to be with you but for some reason will not let you go.. I would not let her do this to you, give you false hope that the two of you will get back together... Let her go for good this time get on with your life .

Answer 6

I know it's hard to break up with someone you love, but there is a reason that this has happened. I would suggest that you both just let nature take it's course. Go your own way and try not to force the two of you together. It seems that the two of you just got way to comfortable with each other and fell into a rut. If it's meant to be as you say it will happen naturally when the time is right and not forced. Good Luck!