Can I please have some Advice??

Question

A few months back my ex-boyfriend & i broke up. We ended on bad terms! He put me through h**l & accused me of cheating when i didn't. He then left me and went strait into another relationsip with a girl he had been cheating on me with. He always stops talking to me for sometime than comes in contact with me again. Lastnight he called me from his new number messing with my head saying he was some random dude from a party, i replied, "I don't give my number to random dudes" he didn't say anything. i called him ( I didnt know it was him at this point) & no answer. I called about 5 hours later blocked & he answered!! He was calling me , "BABY, sweet heart" etc. He told me that he wanted to be in my daughters life again (NOT HIS CHILD BUT WAS THERE FOR HER FOR A LONG TIME) he calims he wants to be daddy tp her again, and put **** behind us! Do i believe him??? I don't know. He called me later WHILE WITH HIS GIRLFRIEND! he told her he was talkign to his cuzzin ( something he used to tell me!!! ) what should i do???????

Byt he way, i am still very hurt. I don't know if i could deal withi m being in my life again. He hurt me so badly. & i also don't think his gf would approve, but he says that if she doesnt then "**** THAT *****"

Answer 1

You should definitely forget this guy.  He's lying to his girlfriend, which means she doesn't know he's talking to you and probably doesn't want him to.  He sounds immature - someone who doesn't know how to be a man.  You and your daughter are better off on your own than with someone so unstable.  Your daughter will be very confused by someone who acts like her daddy when he's around then disappears.  I'm sure you can do much better than that.

Good luck to you.

Answer 2

I agree with Andrea's posting.  Definitely not a trustworthy person, and you can do much better then that.  The accusations he was giving you, then breaks it off with you and immediately went into another relationship tells me that he was the one cheating (which you already confirmed that) and was switching the situation around.  Liars and cheaters do that all the time.  The trust has already been broken, he's shown the signs that he is still the same person and doing the same thing, and he will do the same thing to you all over again.  Don't get back with him.  Give yourself time to heal and move onto someone better.  He's not worth the time or day and you need to think about your daughter first and foremost.  Think about what this type of person, relationship would do to her.  He's not her biological father, nor shows any real signs of wanting to be so.  I think he's using your daughter to "get back into your pants"  which is insane to use a child for that.

You probably didn't realize this, but you posted this in the wrong category.  You should post this in relationships.  This is the business category for business questions.  Not personal business. :)