Can I wear this tiara and veil?

Question

The veil looks funny in picture because it was falling off, the tiers are actually close together....my question is...can i wear this tiara with the veil! i love it, but my best friend says its to much (she NEVER says anything mean or bad about anyone, and she has been hardpressed to say no to anything I have wanted so far...so I really am taking this into consideration if she thinks its to much) here are pictures of me in the dress, in the veil, in the tiara...Oh and i know I am fat please don't make fun of me!

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Answer 1

Wow...the dress looks stunning...I think you quite easily wear the veil and tiara together but if you think it may be too much keep the tiara and go for a plainer veil.

To throw a cat amongst the pigeons so to speak, I think that a nice hairdo (classic loose curls, pinned up high but loose..I hope you know what I mean) with just the tiara and a few gems in blue and diamante pinned in with the curls would look fantastic.

I had a similar look (the dress, veil, tiara) but had my hair curled loose under the veil, I genuinely think that the veil spoilt some of the pictures.

If you're interested, message me and I'll show you what I mean (by the veil spoiling the pics!)

Answer 2

I love the hairstyle you have chosen.  Very nice!  As for the tiara, veil and dress altogether - I think you can get away with it.  Yes - there is a LOT of sparkle in all of them - but I think (considering you are the bride and all) that you can get away with it this once.  If it were me I would try and find a similar veil just with less detailing on the scollops... Because the main 'clash' (if any) is going to be where the detailing on the edge of the veil sits against the detailing of the top of your dress.  But you are the bride so if that is what you really like then I think you can get away with it!  

Answer 3

Can you find a way to stitch the tiara to that gathered edge of the veil? Maybe if you have someone who is handy with a needle they can do that.  It will be much prettier if it is all one piece, not two separate pieces.

If you love the veil and  the tiara, then you should wear them.  It is your wedding, so you should have it the way you want it.

Answer 4

I love your veil and head piece. Hair half up beautiful.

Answer 5

you look gorgeous, anyone who says otherwise is just saying that because they have low slf esteem about themselves.  especially in that dress you look breathe taking seriously.

i love the veil and the tiara, but like alot of people said before me maybe just wear the tiara alone at the reception.  im doing something similar but i'm not wearing a tiara and i'm taking off my veil for the reception.

hope this helps some

congatulations :)

you gotta upload pictures of your wedding somewhere!!

hollyy<3

*but its YOUR day! not ours, so do what you want if you want both! do both! :) its your day, its all about you!

Answer 6

It is a lovely veil, and the tiara looks very pretty with it.

Definitely wear your hair half up, half down.

Answer 7

I think you could get away with a tiara with a veil, but not that veil, it's just to intricate on it's own (I would personally choose that lovely veil over the tiara).

If you had a plain veil and a very simple hair-do (like just a bun or french-roll) you could totally get away with the tiara and veil, just not the veil you have chosen in the pictures.

With what you have shown in the pictures, I think your friend is right, it's a bit too much.

Answer 8

Personally, I think that it looks okay - but, if you are uncomfortable with it or think it might be a little to big you can always get the same tiara - just a smaller one.

Are you going to do your hair up or down? Try playing around with the tiara, veil and different hair styles. The style of your hair will drastically change the effect of the tiara.

In the end, go with what you feel is comfortable. I usually wear my hair all down - everyone told me to do something different for the wedding. I tried doing it half up for my trial, but I knew I wasn't going to be happy or comfortable with it - so I did it the way I felt was comfortable and wore it all down...and I loved it. You have to love it.

By the way - I love the dress. Oh...and you're not fat! You look beautiful!  

Answer 9

i think its both very nice, so if i were you if do the half up hair do and put the vailunderr theup do ;) ur dress is very nice to !!

Answer 10

I personally don't want to wear a tiara but I think it looks beautiful on you. I love the veil with the crystals on the edges it goes with the tiara. I don't think the tiara is a waste of money because you can wear it alone at the reception. By the way you look beautiful. Congratulations!!

Answer 11

you are pretty. The dress is awesome . I think the veil and tiara together is too much. just my taste. I would do one or the other. Congrats...

Answer 12

I love the the tiara AND the veil together! Beautiful!

Congrats!

Answer 13

Honey! You need to not be so hard on yourself.  Not everyone is a size 4.  You are going to look beautiful no matter what your size is on your day.  I think the veil and tiara are beautiful as well  And no one should make fun of you!

Answer 14

The tiara is lovely and so is the veil.  The problem is that the tiara kind of gets lost in the fullness of the veil so we don't see it's full effect.  As a result, I think wearing the tiara would end up just being a waste of money.

Stick with just the veil.  The different lengths are very flattering.

Don't worry that you are on the curvier side.  We all come in different shapes and sizes, and you will be a lovely bride!

Answer 15

i love your dress and i love the veil and the tiara but i feel like its way too much so pick either the veil or the tiara it up to you in the end but im sure everyone has the best interest for you and its too much

but congratulations on your wedding and im sure anything you will pick you will look beautiful and your new hubby will think you look amazing :)

Answer 16

I would never make fun of you! I'm sure you'll be a beautiful bride.

But my honest opinion is the veil is gorgeous, but the tiara along with it takes away the beauty of the veil. If you still want to go with the tiara, I'd choose a smaller one, that's less flashy, so both pieces get seen.

But it really is up to you! As long as you feel beautiful, that's all that matters.

<3

Answer 17

The picture of you in your tiara and veil did not look bad close up but the picture further away did seem a little much. She is your best friend and she only wants the best for you. So I would listen to her advice because we are not their with you in person and she is. She only wants you to look your absolute best.Congrats on your wedding!!

Answer 18

I think it looks really nice together.Go for it.

Answer 19

No, I think you look BEAUTIFUL in that tiara and the veil. How do you feel in it? Thats the important thing. Plus, during the reception, you can take out the veil and only wear the tiara, which is what some people like to do. (I did it)

Your dress looks beautiful! What you have planned is lookng good.  

Answer 20

Honey, you're BEAUTIFUL! So is your gown. I think that veil and tiara are PERFECT with it! With your hair down, you look like a fairy princess. Keep the jewelry simple though, with all of that sparkle, just stud earrings;

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You probably don't even need a necklace.

The colors are perfect with your skin, too.

Answer 21

first of all you are gorgeous and i loveeee your dress.i would have to agree with your friend though.the veil is very nice but not right for the dress.i would suggest a veil with blue piping on the outside to match the dress like this:

http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns...

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http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns...