Can Someone Please Help Me Get Over This Sexual Assault? I Need Help.?

Question

On October 15, 2007, I was sexually assaulted. The man penetrated my v****a with his finger. One month later I developed green sores where my thigh meets my vaginal area, along with small red bumps.

I believe that he had masterbated before assaulting me (He had left the room for awhile)

I was recently diagnosed with genital warts (HPV)

I go see my gynecologist in two weeks. However, I am depressed because I have chaffing where my inner thigh meets me vaginal area. The area is red and extremely painful. I just got out of the bath and it hurts. I am just thinking of skipping my doctor appointment because I couldn't handle being diagnosed with another STD.

I am 21 years old. I only had one s*x partner before the assault. I am so depressed. I hear people say that whoever you had s*x with, you had s*x with all their partners. It just makes me sick because the guy was bisexual and had numerous s*x partners.

Sometimes I just want to die. I couldn't handle getting a prescription for Herpes and having to get it at the pharmecist. I never want to go to the doctor again.

I feel like so ashamed. Now I don't think I will ever find a husband because I have TWO STDs.

What should I do?

Answer 1

You need to go to the Dr. IMMEDIATELY. Don't be foolish! Your condition could lead to more serious complications like not being able to have children. Don't let this loser scum bag define you- be a SMART WOMAN and seek medical help immediately. Almost all conditions are treatable, but the longer you wait, the worse it will get. If you call your Dr. tomorrow and say you have an urgent painful condition, they will fit you in that same day. Don't let one more day pass! Do the right thing.  

Answer 2

You need some support for your HPV.  You don't know you have 2 STDs.  You just think you do.

Also, it sounds like you didn't press charges because you were in a compromising position.  Was this partly your fault for being in the wrong place with the wrong people?  You need to come to terms with this!!

Lying to yourself that this was all his fault might not be really true.

Which ever which way,  your life is NOT OVER, you have many, many years ahead of you.  YOU CHOOSE HOW HAPPY YOU ARE!!!!   By dwelling on it, it wouldn't go away, just stay around you.

Putting it aside, getting on with your education or your career, that will put it to the back of your mind.

You can't concentrate on it all the time.

Answer 3

TJO is right here! The longer you wait, the worse it will get, or even worse than that, it could become untreatable. Dont let this assault be the end of you. Dont let this ba$tard who did this get the satisfaction of you worrying about your future.

Get some counselling after you see the doctor also.

Most STD's are treatable, and the longer you leave it worrying and being in pain, the worse it will be for you

Be brave and see your doctor

Answer 4

Well I'm sorry to read this!

There are women clinics u can go to for help!

Or therapist that can help u out!

Assult is a crime and not your fault!

s*x partner thing well it's more of your state of mind and depression!

there is a law called hippa which keeps people from talk about u! And if u don't want to buy your drugs in your town go to the next town or 20mile away where no one knows u !

When comes to a husband - in most cases the man that loves u will understand and deal with it better than u think!

1 question have u gone to the cops or have enough reported it ?

2 go to the public health dept. for information on therapy and help with any needs u may have!

3 u are depress and u need your friends close

4 I hope u can get help! and if u need someone to talk to just e-mail me I will do my best to help u out!

Answer 5

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