Can Someone suggest some ways to strengthen caregiver and child relationship?

Question

Can Someone suggest some ways to strengthen caregiver and child relationship?

Answer 1

i will try to answer u r question. hope it helps.

to strengthen the caregiver, u could often talk to him/ her about u r passion for u r child. tell him/ her what u wish u r child to be to. and tell him/ her not to be afraid to reject u r child wish if she/ he think that that wish was not good for u r child. never let the caregiver alone doing some kind of treats without u r permission.

to develop u r child relationship u could take u r child to the park that used to play. tell them not to embarrassed when they meet  a new child and u r child want to play with them. stay beside them if they afraid to go alone for playing. do a little chit chat with another child and ask u r child to communicate too. sometimes, leave u r child alone in the middle of children community, just watch them from the that not far from them, so u can see them and they can see u, so they can feel safe.

thats all i can told to u. sorry if my grammar is a little bit mess. hope it helps.

Answer 2

It really varies from one situation to the next.  Here are some general ideas.

* 1:1 with the child doing something the child is interested in.

* rituals...something that you and the child does every single day at around the same time of day.  

* Stating something specific of what you see the child doing...more that praising with empty "good job" phrases.

* If it is a child that his primary language is different...make an effort to learn a little of his language.

* making sure that that child's parents and your relationship is positive and you both are on the same page.

* when that child comes to you and you are busy...make sure to take the time to talk and if you absolutely can not... make sure you tell the child you will get back with them and then follow through as soon as possible.

Good luck.

Answer 3

That's a tough one. If the caregiver and the child don't have a good relationship, it might be tough to strengthen. However, if you are the parent, maybe you need to show just how much you respect the caregiver and make sure you do it in front of your child. That way, they can see that you take them seriously and respect them.

Child have a way of "sensing" things...it's kind of an amazing ability that some people block out as they get older. If the child is old enough to talk, ask them about how they feel about the caregiver- they may give you all the insight you need.

Answer 4

The very first step is to make sure that your child feels attracted to the caregiver. Caregiver MUST be able to communicate to your child in a way that your child feels attracted to her/him. This can be by reading stories, sit down on the floor with your child to play, colour, watch a movie, etc...

Tell your child the night before that next day you won't be around and that she/he will be save with the caregiver, and that they  will have lots of fun together.

Talk to your caregiver about your expectations and your child's needs, favorite things to do, and specially how to discipline the child if necessary.

I always try to prepare my little girl mentally the night before I leave her at the babysitter. I for some reason I forgot or have to drop her off there on a short notice, she's not happy. But if I sit down with her and explain the reason why I won't be with her and someone else will watch her, she really looks forward to it.

Key is communication between parent/child, parent/caregiver, and caregiver/child.