Can U Understand Me???

Question

I'm trying to become a better person & learn from my father mistakes & mines too...I mean I don't wanna treat my boys like my father had treated me & my siblings when we were young but now that I have gotten in touch with my younger siblings now I hope I can be a sign of hope for them plus be a good big brother to them as well be a good father to my boys as well.Lately since my ex & I have been departed I have been trying to do things but yet haven't had time to see my young mens but call them.I'm trying to pave a good future for them but also I'm defining myself along the way as well.I'm very optimistic on some things in my life & have never understood why my dad treated me so bad but also doing it again to my younger siblings as well like history repeating itself but in his life but yet they have gotten in contact with me now.

I just like my life is changing but yet I'm also tryin to undo some things in my life that have impacted me as well.I don't wanna be a bad father to my young mens but wanna share with them & my younger siblings my knowledge on things plus how to deal with life lessons as well.Do you understand me?

Answer 1

ask the same Question again with less words...

Answer 2

I think so...

My advice is to make your "young mens" your top priority. If you don't want to repeat the mistakes of your Dad, then by all means, put your kids above your own needs. Make time for them and don't give yourself any excuses.

Being a good Dad will be enough of a role model for your younger siblings. You are on the right track...now just put your wheels in motion!

Answer 3

1) always be honest with yourself

2) always be honest with others

3) whatever you do - do it with love

4) be the best you can

when you act with love - people see you and follow you.