Can You PLEASE Help With My Dream Interpretation???? I'm SO Confused lol.

Question

Kay, so I'm going to try to tell me dream without being confusing, but it sorta was lol.

IN REAL LIFE- There's this guy, lets call him "Sam", and I thought I liked "Sam", well we starting talking more, and he told me that he liked me, well then he got "mad" or whatever when I couldn't hang out with him one day because I had to go some were at the last minute. Well I took that time that he refused to talk to me, and realized that I Didn't like him as much as I thought I did. Since ten he sorta started talking to me again, but only a text here of there maybe one a week if that.

MY DREAM:

Last night I had this dream, we; me,"Sam", my THREE ex-boyfriends=/, and three other girls who I didn't know, but for some reason seemed familiar to me, we were lost in the woods in the middle of no-were, after we walked in the woods for what seemed like forever, we found this small cabin were we stopped at, and "Sam" told me that he "wasn't going to let anything happen to me.", and started acting like nice, like holding my hand, etc. I rolled my eyes and told him the: "I knew he wouldn't." but inside I felt like he was sorta lying in a way.

We all stopped at the cabin/house, and there was something wrong there that didn't feel right, it was pitch-black outside so black you couldn't see your hand in front of your face, turned out we couldn't stay in the abandoned cabin, so we moved on, but while we walked on and on it seemed like everyone forgot about me, "Sam" wasn't even looking at anymore, and then everything disappeared. And the only thing I could think of was getting back to salivation and home....

then I woke up....

So what the heck does my dream mean? lol I'm really confused....

Thanks for answering! And sorry it was so long of a question, I just wanted to make sure it wasn't confusing and actually made sence lol...

Answer 1

i think your dream was telling you that you kind of knew that things weren't going to work out between you and "Sam".

Answer 2

First of all I have to tell you I am no expert in this kind of thing.  I can only tell you what I think.  To me it means that Sam is not your guy.  Sometimes in dreams, your subconscious lets you know things that you might not see at the time.  In dreams many problems can be solved.  Sam to me seems a bit controlling.  I don't know you nor do I know Sam but I can almost say for sure that your dreams are correct.  Don't go out with Sam.  Something is just not right there.

Answer 3

Ok so first of all, you need to sort out how you feel about this "Sam" guy. Figure out if you like him and if he is worth your time. If yes, then let him know it. If not, then let him know it. It will solve a lot of problems. This is how I see your dream:

Considering the numbering of the group, I would say it was like there was a guy for every girl. Your guy was Sam, probably because he's been on your mind. I'm thinking you may have just thought up your boyfriends just because you can see them as boyfriends, whether to you or to another girl. Since you never interacted with them, I don't think you want them or anything. I think your sub-conscience just put three boys there, and they happened to be ex's. As for the girls, considering you didn't know them, they were probably just 3 random girls you've seen somewhere, or maybe they only seemed familiar because you've been in a similar position (with your ex).

As for what happens, it seems like you are showing your feelings toward Sam. In real life, you are confused about him, and you're not sure how things will turn out together. In this dream, you are almost testing him, to see if he really would keep you safe. You like him enough to stay with him and walk with him and hold his hand, but you don't completely trust him, hence why you felt like he might be lying. Maybe he has done something to make you distrust him, or he has lied to you or someone you know, and your conscience is worried about that.

The cabin is another symbol. I'm not completely sure what it is, but it could be a metaphor for a relationship. For some reason, it just doesn't feel right. Its pitch black because you have no idea how it'll turn out, you have no idea what a relationship with him will be like. And you are worried about that. You decide to leave this cabin, and as you do you lose Sam. After the end of the cabin/relationship, you are alone. You just wanted to be home and safe and comfortable.

So basically, I think Sam is not a good choice for you. You said you don't really like him that much. I have a feeling you don't trust him that much. Your dream shows that you are worried about what would happen in a relationship with that guy, and how it would end. It might be better to just leave Sam alone and find another guy, who really will keep you safe and comfortable. Good luck!