Can Your Parents Make You Do Anything?

Question

Well Im 17 Years Old & My 18 Yr Old Boyfriend Lives With Me & My Family. Well I Sleep In My Bed And He Sleeps In The Living Room Well My Mother Tells Me That If She Wanted To She Could MAKE Me Get A Pap Smear Well My Thing Is Me & My Boyfriend Do Nothing Im Very Self Conscious About My Body & Like I Don't Let Guys Touch Me In Inappropiate Ways Well My Questions Are Can My Mother MAKE Me Go Get A Pap Smear With Me Being 17 Years Old.

What Are Some Other Test I Could Do Without Getting A Pap Smear To Prove To My Mom That Im A Virgin & That Im Not Lieing

Please Help

Answer 1

a pap smear can help detect cervical cancer and the human papilloma virus.  i don't understand why are are so opposed to getting one.

Answer 2

Well, your mom really can't MAKE you do any thing that you truly don't want to do.

As for proving to her, a pregnancy test or just sitting her down and telling her face to face with your boyfriend that yall have not done anything like that.

If she has gone far enough to trust him by letting him move in with you then she should listen to you two if you have someting to tell her.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Hey it's her house, so her rules.

If you value your Independence so much then get a place of your own. Or better yet, have your boyfriend find another place to live so your mom doesn't have to worry that he's getting what he wants from you.