Can a 43 y/old man & an 18 y/old woman have a good healthy relationship after she broke my own marriage?

Question

Hubby keeps on saying that he will be happy with her after he gets together with her, we still live together, but do not sleep together, and the only relationship we have is parenting, he won`t leave though, I`m way to busy to worry about filling for divorce, I can careless, if he stays or not, the only reason I don`t make him leave is because the kids adored him so much;having said that I`m mainly curious if he`ll really have a great relationship with her.

Answer 1

ok seriously shes 18.... she doesnt even know what happiness is. And shes probably not ready to be in a commited relationship like he would want. And she has know idea what a mans needs are other than sexual. And hes old enough to be her dad... what do they have in common?????  Plus she probably just wants him because hes older maybe she didnt have a father figure in her life and it wont take long before a YOUNGER man catches her eye and she forgets all about him. If he thinks thats what will make him happy then let him go.... he be back in no time begging and pleading. Good luck to you and your children take care of YOU and God bless!

Answer 2

You can join me in laughter with this one... uh, No. He wil start getting wrinkles and you know where I mean, and it's over from there..... don't worry - he'll be back

Answer 3

Ew just get rid of him hun!

And h**l not that won't last with an 18 year old. They are in TOTALLY different points of their life. he's OBVIOUSLY selfish to 1)want to leave you and 2) to want to ruin an 18 yr olds life.

FYI That 18 yr old is  a dumby to throw her life away.

Answer 4

I doubt it.  He's old enough to be her father!   What could they possibly have in common besides s*x....and that could get old!  

Answer 5

No they would not have a great relationship together because of the age difference.  She has so much growing up to do.  She can't even legally drink or go to bars, so she probably hasn't really experienced life!  If they do end up together, I don't think it will last.  One day, she will look at him and see how much older he is.  She will want to go to the bars and he won't really fit in with her there.  One day she may want her own kids and he proably won't.  

If you are married to this man and don't want a divorce, then don't get one.  He hasn't tried to leave so he's proably not too serious about her anyway.  But if you want to be with him, tell him to leave her alone!