Besides being a kind, caring, loving, considerate and respectful individual, he is quite negative about life in general, anxious, shy about meeting my family and friends (I often feel disappointed by this) and will always avoid any situation that might cause stress or misery. If someone has been like this for most of their life, is there any hope?
I tell him he's not giving himself the opportunity to live and experience all the good things that life can bring as he always puts a barrier in front of him. It's such a shame as it could ultimately end our relationship which really hurts me. I'm a lot younger (27) and have suffered with depression to the point I wanted to die, but I have battled it (and still do some times) and choose to be more positive and optimistic about life. It's not like he's had a bad life, he is just TOO sensitive about other people's suffering. I am a sensitive individual too but not to the point that ot controls what I do and don't do in life. I would have thought he was wiser but I don't agree. We are very much in love but I know I can't change him.
Any opinions would be interesting. Thanks :) X
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