i got divorced when my daughter was 8 months old. i got re-married a month after she turned three. my now husband has raised her since then, although she does still have a relationship with her real dad. he gets her for a weekend here and there. my now husband and i have two other children together that of course have his last name, as do i. my daughter wants to know why she doesn't have the same last name as we all do...and i told her it's because i used to be married to her daddy and he gave her his last name when she was born. well, i talked to her dad about it, and to make her feel better, he is okay with her using a hyphen after his last name and adding my now husband's last name...so she would go by Avery Pearson-Fulks. he isn't to hot on the idea of adoption though. she starts school on wednesday and will be in the first grade. is it okay legally to ask them to call her Avery Pearson-Fulks? we plan on getting the name changed legally, but it won't be done for a while so could they just call her this until it's made to be her real name? i hope this is not to confusing.
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