Can a child punish a control freak parent when they get older?

Question

And in which way can the child punish the parent that will actually teach that parent a lesson that they should allow the person to be who they are?

Answer 1

i wish i knew.

Answer 2

being you is a way of expressing yourself... who you are and what your proud of... but the only way you can argue it... is if its beneficial to YOU and YOUR LIFE.

just try to talk it out with mom n pops. dont argue. dont yell. just say "ok"... otherwise..they'll continue to get worse.

you cant punish a control freak parent. =/. trust me ive tried. i mean what are you going to do when you get older?... not clean your house... cuz you dont have to and you know itll drive your mom nuts?... well. your gonna have to clean it when she leaves cuz im sure your girlfriend wont like it! lol this isnt something you can punish someone with... just ... do what you do.. and be who you want to be ... for YOURSELF.

if parents dont "allow" they're kids to be who they are... eventually, over time... they will learn to accept it if you just keep pushing and doing it anyways.

Answer 3

by moving out and living your own life

Answer 4

You know the saying "What goes around comes around"

Everyone gets their comupeance eventually.  And if you have been bad to your kids when they are growing up. Why on earth should they return the favor?  But if the kids are just spoiled entitled brats.  Thats another matter. Specially when the parent caters to the kids every whim.