Can a father gain full custody of my 2 children?

Question

i left my ex husband 1 year ago and because of our breakdown i had nowhere to take my 2 children so for the best of them left them with him on the grounds as soon as i was set up we shared them i moved away on the grounds that he would move to but i went first and he never followed because i wouldnt go back to him he has keept my children away from me and is now making out i havent tried and makes me feel worthless all i want is for my children to grow up happy and healthy i am now in a new relationship which my ex holds against me i love my new parntner and just want a normal life for my kids i want to take him to court but am scared that they will belive him over me as he has more money and a better home iam a young mum who was made to belive my ex would always take care of me but at a cost he controlled every asspect of my life and now my children havent seen me for 9 weeks i just want to the right to be the best mum i can

Answer 1

Oh.....so sad for the baby trolls....................

Answer 2

You will do well to remember that the children are his too, you do not have a Divine right as a mother. The court will decide, given all available evidence, what is best for the children, not what is best for either parent. Stop playing political and emotional football with them and consider THEIR best interests. If you cannot, maybe they're better off with Dad.

Answer 3

Assuming that you live in the UK...

Work out what it is you actually want to achieve as far as your children are concerned and then go and see your local Citizens Advice Bureau to get advice as to how to achive it.

Answer 4

IF this story is true and IF you really want your kids back, you would stop wasting time here and be talking to a lawyer. NOTHING would stop you from getting your kids back. Certainly nothing so pathetic and measly as fear

Answer 5

I'm sorry to here that, It doesn't look good for you at the moment, But be aware courts favor females over males. If anything you should be able to get the kids on the weekends if you live close enough, if you live to far, then maybe  visits a couple of times a year.That's the worse case scenario. The best case is you get full custody, half of the house and child support. Then you and your new lover can live richer lives on someone else dime. Isn't that sweat, welfare from the father of your kids instead of the government.  Wow another man gets ripped off!!!!!!!

Answer 6

Bite the bullet and get a really good lawyer(I know it costs a lot)

if you want your kids back you should be willing to sacrifice everything and that includes money