Can adoptees please answer this? I'm 5 months pregnant, and want to give the baby up for adoption?

Question

What kind of parents did you guys have, like were they good to you? See, I really don't want to keep the baby, it's not like I'm scared, but I just don't want to be a mom, ever, but I want to do the right thing and make sure that people will love the baby and look after it all right.

What kind of parents should I look out for? Do you think they should be old, young, etc? I know these are my decisions, but I was just wondering on people's input.

Also, it you are looking to adopt a baby, can you please reply also and say why you want to adopt a baby?

Thank you.

Answer 1

Hello.  My name is Walela.  My husband and I desperately want to adopt a baby.  We lost a little boy last year (I was 7 months along).  Due to complications from that, I had to have a hysterectomy.  I do have biological children now but want one more addition.  I am a stay at home mommy and my husband has been in the Army for 26 years now.  I had wonderful parents.  They were very good to me, and I am very close to them now.  My husband's father was killed in Vietnam but his mother is wonderful.  We are close to her as well.  Please e-mail me if you would like to talk more.  I would be honored to hear from you.  [e-mail]

Answer 2

Well , adoption is a tough decision , it can be heartwrenching if when you feel it is your best option. We were foster parents for many years and wanted to adopt but we had a couple adoptions fall thru because either the children went back to parents or another family member. This is a tough decision , please make sure this is what you want. We adopt your baby in a second , but please , please be sure of your decision it is a difficult one, I hope that someone is guiding you. We are intested in adopting if this is the road you choose.
Good luck
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