Can alcohol really make you forget what you did that night and make you lose control?

Question

my girlfriend recently made out with some guy at a party she went to and claims she was extremely drunk and didnt even remember. Ive been **** faced many times in my life and have been more drunk than she has ever been but i remember stuff alright and have a level of control (165 lbs 6' 1'' 16 beers unknown shots). idk how to believe her. Is it possible she reallyt has no idea?

Answer 1

I have had trouble remembering after a night out at times. But as far as I remember I have always remembered enough to know roughly what I did.

I had a friend in college who's girlfiend did what your's did. He eventually decided to just forgive and they are now happily married.

I should add that I went to a party once and the next day at the pool my Mum asked me why I had two sets of horizontal scratch marks across my back. Just like two sets of fingernails. But I had zero memory of anything that could have done that. I wasn't even aware of any gaps in my memory. It is a shame as it looked like I really enjoyed myself. So who knows ?

Answer 2

bro, it is completely possible. i have done it all my friend, there have been nights where i have made out with girls and dont remeber the next day, also wake up and not know how the h**l i got there. but you know, most of the time you can remeber what you did...a girl usually uses that excuse 99% of the time because girls dont get "that" drunk, and then thier friends usually try to talk them out of it. its a toss up man, she could be lying to you, or she can be telling the trust. but is is completely possible that she drank so much she forgot. you shoudl ask some people that were there and see how much she really drank....for any girl around the 1-10 mark they are fine, 11-15, i dont think so, but over that for a girl, it is quite possible. but a girl that does that **** behind your back is not worth your time...five words of advice to you my friend, "drunk words are sober thoughts." good luck.

Answer 3

It is possible.

Answer 4

it can make you black out. plus some low life was probably picking on her because she was drunk. i'd more pissed at the guy than i would be at her.

Answer 5

ive been there but usually remember some things from my crazy night

she could be lying to you

a drunk and a liar! ditch her!

Answer 6

I never did for me. It did make me forget the way home one night but i do remember what I did. AND IT SURE WAS FUNNY.

Answer 7

it alllll depends on how much she drank. But i don't think "i was reallly p**s drunk" is a legit excuse in situations like that. Because it's her fault she got herself in that situation around guys. She knew she had a boyfriend before she started getting waisted and should've thought, "maybe i shouldnt get out of control with my drinking because i have a boyfriend, and i don't wanna get in a situation with myself where i dont realize i'm hooking up with someone else". And if she didn't remember, how does she know she did it??

Plus do you wanna have to worry about the next time she gets too drunk at a party and hooksup with someone else? I wouldn't wanna worry about that. And that was always my friends excuse to her boyfriend when she would get caught cheating on him. Shed always say welllll i was drunkk. But to answer your question, yes it is possible, but she mustve been reeaaallly rip roaring drunk, and puking her brains out that night, and really really sick. Because if you blackout, your REALLY drunk.

Answer 8

oh yes, when i am extreally drunk, everything is a blur.

Answer 9

Possible but not likely.     You really have to drink beyond all reason to lose your memory.    The alcohol may have loosened her morals but she's likely lying about not remembering.  

Dump her.     Once a liar and a cheater always a liar and cheater.