My husband and I are going through a divorce. He's a great dad and a good person, we just sucked at being married.
My daughter, who is 8 now, has known him as dad all her life (have not heard from bio dad in all 8 years). We had talked about adoption, but never really got around to it during the marriage.
Can he still adopt her even though we're getting a divorce? He's not legally obligated to pay child support or to see her, but she visits him at the same time our son (her brother) does, and he helps out financially with her, even though he's not obligated to.
It makes sense to me that he should be able to be her legal dad, even though things didn't work out in the marriage. But the courts might think otherwise. :(
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