Can an old friend with benefits just be a regular friend?

Question

I'm just curious to know. I've been think about the past of me and my old friend with benefits. Basically, we met a few years ago and start sleeping together and then I found out that he had a girlfriend was just using me. So I stopped having s*x with him for that and because I became a Christian. But he calls or texts me every now and then and he knows I'm not having s*x with him anymore (I didn't verbally tell him that, but it's been almost two years since I've seen him or touched him, lol). So, since he calls or texts every now and then, is it because he really wants to be friends now? Or because he misses the s*x?

Answer 1

I had a guy come back into my life (that was a fwb) after a year without talking to me or seeing me. I thought he was being genuine but within the first conversation I knew exactly that he was still the same guy. He just wanted to use me.

That guy sounds like a s**t in my opinion.

Answer 2

Yea if u dont have the desire to fuq em anymore.

Answer 3

dont talk to him.hes a man s**t.

Answer 4

Guys don't work the same way as women.

Every woman they've shared a kiss with, in the future they think that maybe she'll still be interested, maybe they still have a shot.

He's after the s*x is the easy answer.

Answer 5

Why is that even a question? The man's trying to cheat on his gf! Don't encourage that behavior!

Answer 6

i say move on!! was he calllin g and texting u like dat when yall was sexin it up?? Plus he had a girl!!! Leave is sorry self alone!! Keep doing u and dont stop the christians ways just cuz he wants to be friends..let him use sum one else!!

Answer 7

He misses the s*x. Just move on from talking to him

Answer 8

No you don't need this guy, he's just looking for easy s*x. Find yourself a good friend. Or at least a boyfriend, who will want you, just as much as s*x, if you are prepared to go that far with him.

Answer 9

Sorry to say this but he probably misses the s*x. I mean there is a 10% chance he wants to be friends now but very unlikely. But you can hang out with him if you really enjoyed his company as well as the s*x, but just make sure you are strong enough to say NO.

Answer 10

Well, first off, you have to be realistic. You weren't a FWB to him,  you were just the other woman. I don't hear much of a friendship element in this at all, to be truthful. He is only contacting you because he wants to mess around on his girl again.

Answer 11

He just wants to keep you as a s*x buddy however with a girlfriend that just won't work...he will have to choose sooner or later....also...how immoral of YOU.....kinda sounds like you are a tease and leading him on when you know what the situation is...and chances are the s*x with you was not that good...so you might be careful on your high horse.

Answer 12

You have told him "no".  That has set the mood for the chase, or challenge.  He will play along for a while, but, mark my words.  He will try to catch you again.