Can any one help me please?

Question

I'm 17 years old...and struggling again.. with eating.. for the past two weeks.. I don't eat breckfast or dinner.. just drink watter and tea black. and sometimes a diet coke... I have to eat a bit of dinner cause my parents think it's importat to eat dinner together...so.... I dono.. I just puke it up after... I dono... it seems weird to me though.. I'm 4ft 10 and a half.. and my doctor says taht I shold be 119 lbs.. even though that's not acording to the charts.. becaus of my bone and muscle density.. and a nother doctor said 121 lbs.. But I dono.. that seems like bull c**p to me.. I'm sorry for my negativity.. I'm I dono.. it gets you down and depressed.. and I'm always dizzy and trying not to faint.. but yet excersise.. and I dono.. I dono what to do anymore.. my parents refuse to talk about it.. they know that I have an eating dissorder.. the doctors say I have one.. but um.. they didn't tell me what.. or why .. or what I should be... and I have no support.. and frackley. I dono wa

Answer 1

You know all my life everyone has told me to gain weight, and I try to I really do, I have had 3 kids and still am the same size I was at 16

You need to feel good about yourself and love who you are and stop listening to bad things people are saying.  If the Doctor tells you to be at a certain weight then it might be healthier.  But how many people in the country are really listening to what the dr is saying.  If your trying to lose weight stop drinking the soda that has more sugar in it than your body needs, you need to have a healthy diet and stop starving yourself.

Answer 2

hey firstly, dont starve urself!!!

that's really dangerous. Who the h**l is going to care if u r fat or thin...

everyone has their own things to do and believe me no one has time to notice wat u have been upto..

Have a full-fledged healthy breakfast. i donot know wat Americans have for breakfast.maybe whole grain sandwich.. with some fresh fruit juice or slim milk. Avoid using sugar. Eat till u r full.

((I go to the gym in the morning and wrk out for about an hour and come home and eat Idlis with clarified butter ( an indian recipe which consistes of steamed lentils) and a hot steaming cup of coffee. U know wat, that's the best meal in my entire day.))

have small portions of food for lunch and dinner..avoid meat. take plant substitutes instead like soy. And keep eating fruit or salads wenever u feel hungry..

I am sure u will start feeling much better. U can always workout more but never neglect ur food. Now since u r young, u maybe doing fine but as u grow older, ur body will show signs of weakness. And u have a lot to acheive in ur life..dont waste ur energy thinking abt trivial matters.

Answer 3

Go for a jog you will feel better.  

Answer 4

your weight should be for your age and high should be between 83 and 121 pounds and i no its so annoying having to be sat there being forced to eat i have been anorexic and as soon as i recovered every one keep say you look so healthy and i got so annoyed and now back to starving my self been try to make my self sick but it doesn't work any tips how to?? anyways hope i helped gd luck

Answer 5

i can try!

Answer 6

my first suggestion would be to seek out counseling in addition to the medical component. you are dizzy either from anxiety, not enough nutrients in your system or both and could be something entirely different such as your blood pressure. I wouldn't be concerned with just how much you are supposedly supposed to weigh, I would be concerned on what is making you so anxious as to developing a disorder and address it before any other issues develop. It will take a very strong person to look at themselves on the inside and say, "hey, I really need help. I can't keep doing this and I need my families support." Address the doctor/s with your family and they need to learn how to positively support you instead of not directly addressing a serious issue and hiding the scale. Family counseling as well as one on one counseling just may be of benefit to you.

good luck

and god bless

Answer 7

YES !