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Can any one please tell me why my bst chum is behaving like this?

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i have a friend who doesnt stay near my home but comes during his vacations or in between 2,3 days on weekend.

sometimes when he comes he plays with me and my friends or sometimes he just walks off saying hi! or something like that.he's among my best chum.

can any on tell why he must be behaving like this?

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He behaves like this because he is not giving your friendship too much thought. He is taking it very lightly and casually. You are just over analyzing and take is casually and lightly...
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Everybody need to be given his space, so that they can be themselves and not what we try to make out of them. If he is your best friend, then this is part and parcel of his individual behaviour. Accept him and respect him, as he is, because this attitude of his. is what that made him your best chum. Have no limitations or expectations that because he is your best friend, YOU need to be his best friend too. Do not let jealousy or hard feelings get in your friendship.
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he maybe busy seeing other people. as long as he's not being mean, he will remain your best friend :)
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Some people say guys always speak to girl intendly. Some guys expect girls to come and speak to them. I am one among them. Even if i like a girl, i dont bother to go and speak to her unless she initiates it. Bcoz i am kinda shying natured guy. May be ur CHUM is my kinda guy;.
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He is just having his won space and time.

He is not behaving rude or totally ignoring you,it is your state of mind.

Everyone has their own mind and wants their own space in life. It is not necessary to do similar activity all the time with similar people.

What if anyone you know, demands from you to stand or sit or repeat the same line always when you meet him/her, meeting could be say10-100 times in your life.What would you say of that person, "a NUT".

Everyone has life of their own and so let life breath instead of suffocating it.

Live and Let Live.
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maybe when he's really busy he can't come over.atleast he says hi.how'd you feel if he went past without even saying that.don't misunderstand your friend so fast.just put in a little more research.if he begins acting mean and completely ignores you then you can ask him whats going on.
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that him
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