Can anyone enlighten me on why certain co-incidences happen?

Question

On the morning of my birthday I ate cerial from a bowl and a spider came down from his web to hop in the milk thats was left... he can have it. That night just before my final sip of my drink I saw a spider in my glass that definately wasnt there the sip b4. Spiders are my biggest fear. On Xmas day I was stung by a bee (on my thigh). Are bees really messengers from the Gods as they say...? I luv bees. Can these natural occurrences mean anything at all?

Answer 1

Hmmm...Have you ever heard the Nursery Rhyme "Little Miss Muffet"? It goes.."Little Miss Muffet ..Sat on a Tuffet (?) ..Eating her curds (cereal) and whey! Along came a spider ..and sat down beside her...and frightened Miss Muffet away!!"

But I don't know one about a bee!!.

A few months ago..I was walking in the yard at night. I had a flashlight. I almost stepped in what I thought was a pile of ____. Then it moved!! It was a water moccasin. !! Then I went into my house and almost sat down when I saw a spider hanging from it's "string" right where I would have sat down. Then a little frog jumped on me on the back porch. But none of them hurt me....although we killed the moccasin. (Didn't really have a choice.)

  I was just glad I didn't get bit by the snake. Be glad that it was only a bee that stung you. In the summer we have a lot of wasps...but I think I've only been stung once. Just let them have their space and maybe they will stay out of your space.

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EDIT Wait a minute...The "Recluse" spider can kill you...at least poison you and is very painful...So, don't go "playing " with spiders...unless you know for sure what kind it is! We had some HUGE kind in our laundry room . It looked kinda like a banana spider. But, I googled it and it looked similar to a poisonous kind. I don't think it was the poisonous one. I haven't seen any since then.

Answer 2

i really dont think theres anything behind these coincidences...and i really dont think bee stings are a message from god....

Answer 3

um, if bees are messages from gods, then I suppose the gods dont like you.

No, bees are not messengers from gods. lol, where do you get this material?

You have too many spiders around your house is my guess.

Where did the coincidence come in? I don't really get your question.

You asked about coincidences. I got spiders in my house too. Perhaps we are psychically connected? No, I don't think so.

Answer 4

Maybe it is a chance for you to realize there are far worse things in this world to fear more than spiders. Put it into some perspective...you're way bigger than they are; why exactly ARE you afraid of them?

Answer 5

Don't worry......i've had many co-incidences like for example when I kept getting into trouble and then they all went away all at once.......These all happen but they don't necassarily mean that there's something odd about it.....Don't let your immagination overcome your wisdome.....I sometimes try to make something out of nothing and then I realize that it was just a waste of time....There's nothing odd out there.It's all our imanination power that tries to make something out of nothing and to think something isn't ust right.

Answer 6

You either need an exterminator or get checked out for psychosis.

Answer 7

everything has a meaning, there are no real coincidences.  You might be attracting these bugs with your energy or they could be the universe is trying to tell you something.  Spiders are spinners, creators.  They are symbolize fate in certain circles.  Bees are busy workers.  They build.  Are you starting on abig new project or career. Changing majors at school?  Think on these symbols in the context of your life and see if there is a meaning.

Wilds

Answer 8

In nature nothing is repeated. Coincidences also differ greatly. So no question of why. It so happens that this happens.

Answer 9

Fear is a state of mind.  States of mind are somewhat difficult to control.  So, you could have seen something and interpreted it as a spider.  You could have imagined it.  You could have a problem with spiders in your house.  I've never heard that bees were anything but insects who make honey to feed their young and can sting.  In the bible, it's usually angels, doves, or burning but non-consumed bushes which carry God's messages in the Old Testament, and Christ or angels in the New Testament.  Of course, there are direct messages through dreams.

Answer 10

These natural occurrences don't mean anything in a paranormal sense. Sounds like you live in a very buggy environment. That's also a natural occurrance when a hospitable natural environment is available to them, not a paranormal occurrance. Coincidence just means that two things happened near in time &/or place to each other. Looking for a deeper meaning in that diverts your energy from more important things you could be doing.

Answer 11

Sounds to me like you have a lot of spiders.  The bee thing is unrelated to the spider thing, but directly related to your behavior.

Answer 12

It means that spiders and bees have taken up residence in your house, call an exterminator.

Answer 13

You need to call the Orkin Man