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Question

me and my partner have been having unprotected s*x for months and i haven't got pregnant yet. I dont want a baby yet and dont want to go on the pill because of cancer related issues and he doesn't like to wear a condom.

Do you think there is anything wrong with his sperm or me because i thought i would be pregnant by now although we use the pullout technique.

Im asking this for plans in the future

Thanks x

Answer 1

No, nothing is wrong with his sperm. My boyfriend and I do the same thing, we have for about a year now, and I haven't gotten pregnant yet. Your not pregnant yet only because he pulls out in time, it also may depend on how old you are and when you got your period and stuff. But nothingi s wrong with his sperm, if you ever decide to get pregnant in the future, all youwould have to do is have him not pull out :]

Answer 2

Very good.

Answer 3

Usually its all due to timing- days your ovulating. and of course you know pull out never works...

( i suggest since you claim "i dont want a baby yet" to get on some type of birthcontrol...there are more option than the pill.)

Anywho:

Take a fertility test at the doctors. You and him both-to find out.

Other wise I say stop having s*x until you both get some sort of protection- since you DO NOT WANT A BABY YET-otherwise youll automatically find out your both fertile when you get a positive pregnancy test..

Answer 4

you are very lucky, this method could fail, and whoaloah....ur parents  

Answer 5

Ur bf is messed up for not wanting to wear a condom make him wear a condom ur the one who will have the evidence of unprotected s*x un your shirt after this!  

Answer 6

Ide say youve just been really lucky, but if your concerned about it just go to your doctor or family planning centre and get checked out. if you dont wanna get pregnant ide suggest the implant (small bar in your arm, cant feel it dont worry) it works for 3 years before you have it replaced. good luck for the future :) x

Answer 7

The pullout method is not a surefire way to prevent pregnancy, but it doesn't mean it doesn't work some times. Also, maybe you just don't have s*x during the 24-48 hours of ovulation. In that case, you couldn't get pregnant.

Answer 8

well I used the pull out method and I did not get pregnant for 2 years, then I planned my pregnancy with my son got pregnant first time he didnt pull out.

then I used the pull out after I had my son for 18 months before  I conceived.

I worried too if We would have a problem getting pregnant because the pull out is not normally successful.

I bet that when the timing is right and you guys try then you will probably have no problem conceiving. Especially if there are no other health issues you are concerned about. The pullout is probably working for now.  :)

Answer 9

he might have a low sperm count.or it just isnt meant to happen yet. my sister and her  ex hubby had unprotected s*x for about 6 years she never got pregnant she thought something was wrong with her but they've split and shes about to have her second child.

If you really want to know I think both of you should go to the doctors and let them check.

Answer 10

Okay you probably already know that you can still get pregnant from the pull-out method because of pre-ejaculation. If he has been your only sexual partner, I think he may have a sperm problem, but don't worry. There are alot of things he can do in the future if you plan on settling down with him and having babys. If you have had several partners, it may be your uterus. You can have an ultrasound to find out if you are capable of having children and he can have an infertility test to see if he can produce a child. If your young, and can't talk to your parents about this, I would try talking to a friends Mom. I hope it works out for the best hun. =]

Answer 11

well thats same things as me.. i never get pregnant yet by now me and my boyfriend had s*x every days for months.. thats so stranger.. but i found out that i had STD which is why i can't get pregnant.. maybe u have STD

Answer 12

Apparently your just not meant to have a baby now!!  I wouldn't worry about it until its the time you want to have a baby, make things much easier on you.  

Answer 13

I've known people who have not used anything for years and got pregnant eventually. I strongly suggest if you indeed do not want to get pregnant that you talk to your doctor about other birth control methods you could use.  Your doctor would be able to give you some choices to help you decide what to do. Good luck.