Can anyone help me? friend problems?

Question

my "friend" is a year younger than me. were both on the same soccer team and everything was fine a year ago. now my friend totally changed...in a bad way. shes becoming all ghetto and she dissed my sister and friends. she tells them to stay away from me cuz im too cool for them. and she tells them behind my back. i wouldnt know all this unless my sis told me. and she also says a lot of put downs to me. and trys to take all my friends. and now shes going to the same school as me, but a grade below, im in 8th shes in 7th. what should i do about her???

Answer 1

stop being her friend. I had a friend like that, and i thought she would change once we got older but she didnt.  

Answer 2

you both are quite young still, dont worry about the distrubing of friendship, having a clear and serious talk is necessary. As she grows up,.she will understand these all. (actually i used have certain issues when i was about your age)

Answer 3

find new friend that arent asses duh!!!!!!

Answer 4

she obviously isnt a good friend to you, so dont bother

Answer 5

I had a similar experience back in college. My so-called bestfriend said some really nasty rumors and it was like everyone I knew were talking about me behind my back. It was like the whole world was against me. What I did was, I confronted her, I told her how hurt I was and asked her why she even said those things about me, well she denied everything; after that I didn't speak to her nor tried to restore our friendship, I just ignored her and found a new circle to hang out with. Now she's the one trying to reach out to me, trying to make amends.Right now, I'm still trying to befriend her again but I know we will never be best of friends ever. I know the ignoring thing is easier said than done but it is one of the best things a person can do and always remember DO NOT step down to her level it just shows she's immature, and also just continue being the better person, don't act the way she's acting.

Answer 6

Drop her,she is not a friend,seems like she is a little drama queen,who seems to need to be the center of attention.

Answer 7

say this :

"hey. whats your problem? why are you putting me down and acting all ghetto?? if you think your cool your not, and my friends are staying with me, and will never like you no matter what they say. im freaking older then you and your acting like your all tough, s***w you *****!"

Answer 8

I have the same problem, only this friend is in my grade.

And she's turned so 'hardcore'

I say, if she isn't the person you befriended at the beginning, and has changed to much, you probably dont have much in common anymore.  

Confronting her may cause too many issues, so just stop hanging out with her.  I doubt your sister is lying, because if you've noticed all of your friends changes and attitude, then its evident.

Good luck, and I hope everything works out for you.

Answer 9

well first of all she sounds real mean!

if shes telling all your friends to turn on you, you should all get your friends together and tell them that your their friends and they should be there for you,, and theyll understand.

and if the girl going to your school says anything to you stand up for yourself and remind her that you were friends once...

and remember your in 8th grade and shes only a little 7th grader.

im in 9th grade and i know how mean people can be!

hope that helps!

and remember to know who your real friends are!

(:

Answer 10

Find another friend.