Can anyone help me it about my friend?

Question

my friend is staying in my house on friday to tuesday and the youth club in my church is on saturday and i have to do the tea and coffee and she will not go how can i get her to go

Answer 1

Your friend obviously doesn't want to go to church. You should respect her wishes, it is just as much her right to decide not to go to church, as it is your right to practice your religion. Freedom of religion is also the freedom not to practice one if that is your wish.

It really irks me when people try to guilt trip, or bribe me to go to church. Be careful, if you pressure her too much you could lose a friend over it. Offer to drop her off at the movies while you do your youth club meeting on Saturday.

Answer 2

say that it's going to take a very short time and that afterwards you'll go somewhere a lot better, like watching a film or something, to "compensate for the boredom at church".  i know that you might not probably consider church as boring, but seeing as she doesn't want to go, it's probably a good thing to say.  you could say that you could introduce her to all of your church friends.

if you can't persuade her to go, either you'll have to find someone else to do the tea and coffee, or leave her at your place without you, which isn't the best idea.

or try bribing her - not with money, that's like buying your way in.  like giving her two days of your complete slavery where she gets to boss you around.  it won't be that bad.  or try listing all the disadvantages or her not going - like being left at the house without you.    

Answer 3

hunny if she was a true friend she wood go to this with u!!    

if she were a true friend she wood not even have 2 think twice about going!!!

Answer 4

I think you should just accept that she will not go.

Answer 5

Give her cash to do somethin

Answer 6

you must explain her that this is so enjoyable group discussing,so she must join sometimes.

Answer 7

why dont u bring her?

Answer 8

just take her with you or say that ive got to go some where, and tell hir to go to some other house for that day.