Can anyone help me with a guy problem?

Question

I have an ex (which is currently my best friend) that I was very serious with who became my ex because he was having big problems in his life that he felt took away from our relationship. Well now he has all of these problems straightened out and wants to begin our relationship again. I really love him sooo much but I'm with someone else right now who I also think is dandy (but really not quite as much as my ex). I don't want to hurt feelings or break hearts and cheating is DEFINATLY not what I will do.

Any advice because I swear this is driving me crazy!

Answer 1

you have to follow your heart, even if it means hurting the other dude's feelings. because then you'd be stringing him along...coz you are with him, while dreaming to be with someone else. and it may not be cheating, but can hurt the person just as bad.

Answer 2

ask yourself this question?

if you never had to see one of them again ever in your entire life,which one would it be?

basically whoever makes you more happy and whatever u choose someone will have  a  broken heart!

hope this helped!

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Answer 3

Follow your heart. You can not stay in a relationship just because you dont want to hurt feelings because in the long run that isnt fair to anyone. But also remember, there was a reason you broke up in the first place.