Can anyone help me with boy trouble?

Question

ok, well there's this guy I really like. He's about a year older than I am, and I've known him for a really long time because his parents and my parents have mutual friends, so I see him at parties from time to time. We went to middle school together, but then he left to high school so it's been about a year. I'm about to start at the same high school, so i could use some advice. He's always really nice when he sees me and acts kind of flirty, but I have a feeling that's just how he acts with all girls..

p.s.. he has a girlfriend, but I don't think it's serious, and she doesn't go to the same school, so they don't see each other much.. help!

Answer 1

I learned that if you act like you dont have feelings for him like you do he will come around faster. If you act like you like him they run away. For some odd reason young teens do this. Just be friends with him, dont try to immpress him or anything extra. Guys like a girl that they can be friends with too. I always chased boys around when i was younger and you will findout that when you get older when you meet someone and you feel a certain way it comes natural and will happen natural. If him and his girlfriend dont work out then make sure he knows you are still around. Trust me at that age, boys will have many girlfriends but really where are they taking them? To school? Relax it will happen all by it self. Too hard to explain

Answer 2

I think you should talk to him in school and show him how cool and lay back you are and hey maybe he will like you back espacially if the relationship is not serious.

*P.s Starting high school is a big step you mighty like someone else and don;t be shy high school is a fun place so be yourself.