Can anyone interpret dreams??

Question

My ex-husband passed six months ago and I dream't we were on a date, he wanted to work things out ,our son wasn't in the dream but my ex was smiling and then it seemed like an older man or boss was telling him what to do and he kept on talking to me and I had a feeling of caution although I seemed happy but I was aware he passed in my dream. Do loved ones come to us in our dreams or is it just wishful thinking??

Answer 1

The main thing to realize is not him working things out but it is you and your mind attempting to correct things....

him smiling may mean peace to you or that you feel he was angry while living at you...or at peace without life...

you being aware of his passing is common and necessary for you mind to be coping with the issue...

for a major theory of dreaming is that it copes with daily activities or copes with fears of a person....

someone passing is perhaps the worst of our fears...my own father passed and i have studied dreams since i was 15 now 28....i can not only dream what i want but change within them at times....it takes practice but it is possible...if you dont believe then you better read..Freud is  good start...

he would only look at me and walk off....look at me an walk off..i wanted him buried..he got himself fired up and ashes given to my mother...made me furious..but she refused to dump them over in the river where he felt most free....

well....one night drinking and intoxicated..i made the argument of my dreams...and i won..we threw those ashes and i havent had that terrible dream of him not talking to me since....

Answer 2

i think it simply means that you want so bad to see him and talk to him again but know that it isn't possible and that explains the older man trying to interupt. Of course loved ones come to us in our dreams...it happened in your dream didn't it? Maybe it's not actually spiritual but he was in your dream. you'll probly dream of him more in the years to come. I'm sorry for your loss...really i am.

Answer 3

I'm sorry for your and your son's loss, that's very hard for you both.

Do loved ones 'visit'?  We cannot prove or disprove actual spiritual visits - but they are certainly real enough to the beholder and what drives them, if 'only dreams', is quite real.  How one feels about that depends on faith and one's outlook, but such dreams are really under the heading of 'gifts' to us.

Your dream seems to deal with closure - a need to know that things are settled between you and that he has moved on to where there is no suffering.  You mention his desire to 'work things out'.  Your son was not there - but something relating to family is unresolved by this comment - and apparently remains so.

This authority figure then interrupts - your ex apparently continues trying to communicate but you sense some hazard in this.  The 'boss' seems to be one who interferes - perhaps even robs you and your ex of time needed together.  Were you at times robbed of closeness and time for family in your life together?  Did this interfere with what might have been a happier time for you both, and your son?  If so, then a lingering sense of loss and frustration can come from this - and affect such dreams.  

It is as if this dream is a 'replay' of something your heart has yearned for and never got the chance to actuate.  You need to release him and know that all is OK, even if the words were never gotten around to in this world.  He would likely hold very similar feelings to your own, despite any differences or challenges between you - and the love you did share is still there.  

Although he is lost from you and your son in this world, that love is not lost.  He comes now in this dream - whether through the veil or by your own psyche matters not - to illustrate this.  But you must complete the picture: you must come to see things as complete after all, that love, even in estrangement - and even in death - still lasts and sustains - and that all that was truly important was and is truly understood.

There's no need to have that date - the purpose is accomplished - you need only to see that and embrace it.  Complete the 'visit' - kindness and love is intended.  Disregard the interfering boss - you ex still can't help it, that was a fact that will always stand as true - but does not have to stand as eternally interfering with what you feel in your heart.  Release it and let the good feelings remains.

Do our loved ones come to us in dreams?  They do - in what sense does not matter, the purpose is real.  Consider accepting that as a gift from some place we cannot fully understand - whether the heavens or the intricate human mind matters not at all - it is the settled heart that matters.  It is your settled heart he would want, for yours and your son's sake.

All the best to you.

Answer 4

The dream is your unconscious attempting work through the grief you have recently experienced.   The dream suggests you still had some feelings for you ex and probably at times had thoughts of working things out.

Answer 5

im not trying to say that he came to you in your dream, but science can only tell so much...anything cood be possible, so maybe!