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Can anyone interpret this dream? ?

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I wake up and I'm in the middle of my wedding day. I have no idea who the groom is, but apparently I've been dating him for a long time. My sister has planned out the entire wedding, but the entire time I'm freaking out because I don't love the groom because I don't know who he is, and know that the wedding is going to be a ridiculously big joke because I'm just going to end up getting divorced. I want to try to stop it, but the wedding is so elaborate and so far along that I know people are going to be angry at me for not saying anything sooner, for getting to the last minute and then canceling.

I am pushed into a room at the church and told to get ready. All of my closest friends are around me, and they are applying my makeup, helping me put on the gown, etc. But no one is doing my hair. It looks very shabby, and is just in a pony tail. Someone put the veil on me, and that makes it look a little better, but the veil keeps falling off.

At some point, my mother and I get lost in the church going to look for my father so he can walk me down the aisle. I don't want to get married, but for some reason not being able to get there and disappointing everybody makes me very anxious. We try to follow directions, and we can still see the wedding and everyone waiting, but I can't make it downstairs. My hair is an absolute mess and the veil is falling off, and my dress is wet and dirty. I never actually make it down to the wedding, but then I see flashes of what the wedding looked like and me walking out of the church and getting into the car.

The dream was very frustrating so any help in trying to understand it would be greatly appreciated! My overall sentiment was embarrassment because I knew the wedding was a sham because I wasn't in love and was just going to get a divorce and people were going to think I was ridiculous.

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  1. This dream signifies death or murder which may happen near or the same place where the wedding took place; particularly ... and I reiterate this word.... particularly... if the wedding included everything a weddings has such as the happiness, the music and all the activities.

    However; it is better for you personally not to keep talking about this dream; doing this does change how the dream may come out sooner or later.    


  2. Most of the time, various items in a dream are symbolic. A wedding might symbolize the rest of your life (a commitment or choice you might be making), the abscent groom and father shows a certain mistrust of men, your sister and mother seem to take leadership rolls in your family at least for you but you feel unable to measure up because all the women around you seem to know what to do but you still have the disheveled hair and unruly garment cuz you don't think you can get your proverbial p**p in a group about anything. You don't want to do certain things but you do them to please or placate your family but in reality...perhaps they care alot less about your choices and direction in life than you think and just want you to be happy. Make some decisions. Do for yourself...that you are "pushed' into a room and dolled up by friends says that maybe you feel less than attractive on your own but might be obsessed with hair. None of this is bad..its just difficult to let go of some things that maybe began in childhood or teenage years now that you are an adult. I would simply sit and do some introspection, be self analytical and really examine your own thinking. Do some reading, praying and meditating. Spend some time on your own. Don't talk to anyone or discuss this at least to start. Think for yourself what the answers might be. And when you do figure it all out..and decide to discuss it....don't appologize for your choices, stand up for yourself and express what you are thinking. Maybe you think that your family is in some sort of hurry to get you out of the "nest"...it could be alot of things but while I've shot some ideas out there...I think you can see cuz you are in it better than anyone else. Love in Christ, ~J~  

  3. that ur getting affected by peer preasure

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