Can anyone love a Scorpio?

Question

I am a Scorpio, and a typical one. I've been accused of being moody, distrustful, possesive, manipulative, jealous, cruel, hateful, and cold. Scorpios remember EVERYTHING you say and do, but rarely remember dates or numbers. Scorpios inherently just KNOW about people. Fellow Scorpios might understand when I say, we feel too much.

Even though I enjoy being intuitive, guarded, serious, and probing, these aspects often do not fit into a positive relationship (especially with air signs, I find). How can a Scorpio fall in love with anyone without having to hide their true selves? It's no wonder we withdraw from the world. We sometimes feel like there is nobody for us but ourselves.

Answer 1

One Scorpio to another.

All the bland, shallow, and uninvolved people out in the world will make you feel like you're crazy.

Just find someone who can match you.

Pisces and Capricorns work the best.

Don't go after air signs their too flighty and generally don't care about things much.

Cancers are good but their need to be nice to everyone may bring out your possessiveness and jealousy.

Cancers are jealous too so their will be alot of fighting going on.

The make up will be hot though trust me..

Just find someone who understands you. Air signs can't

Try to cut down on the mind games too.

I know it's embedded in us but people grow tired after awhile at first it'll be "cute" but then it will just get draining.

Remember just because we have the tenacity to go with emotional roller coasters doesn't mean everyone else does.

Once you get past your supposed "bad" traits you will be THE most loved person by your significant other.

Because you're so passionate and selfless about loving them.

Don't give up hope :p

Answer 2

hey, im a cancer and we are exactly like that as well. cancers always have a guard up and never show their true selves. and cancerians can hold a grudge and be very jealous and distrustful, especially when they feel something is wrong. and they will withdraw in a shell when they feel hurt or unsafe. hence the reason why cancer and scorpios make a good match. both signs understand each other b/c they are so similar. in fact, from the get-go cancerians will be drawn to a scorpio like a moth to a light. and scorpios will be surprised of how much they can relate to a cancerian.

Answer 3

Cancers are a good match with Scorpios because they understand this nature of theirs. I am a Cancer dating a typical Scorpio. Its funny because I have those traits as well, just from the way I am as a person. Most people are too shallow to see into Scorpios depths...though there are some out there that can. It's possible for you to find true love, it just has to be real and with an understanding person who can connect with all those feelings.

Answer 4

You don't have to hide your true self..Others ( Air signs ) have to love the REAL you! If they don't love the real you, then they aren't worthy of any of your strong, passionate feelings!

Frankly, I think that Scorpios are amazing people!! Why ? Well, there are LOTS of reasons..I really don't understand people who detest us ( I'm half a Scorpio )..

Eventually, everyone has a dark side...Everyone can be cruel and cold ....Everyone can be moody and jealous!

My answer is YES, I actually want my lover to be a Scorpio! I'll look for him ;)

Answer 5

Hey I'm a scorpio too, and i totally understand where you're coming from.

Answer 6

Hey i am a canser im supost to b ur match.. lets hang out sometime......

Answer 7

i don't think you will need to hide who you are when you are with right person.

if you are trying to attract air sogn , i guess this will happen often.

they are generally afraid of passionate woamn like scorpio. they would be happy with a shallow signs . unless that what willing to become .

Answer 8

That's correct........

Scorpio

Answer 9

A pisces will love you heart and soul.  They can see through your rough exterior and see what's on the inside (passion, intensity, devotion, etc.) without exchanging a word with you.  Just like scorpios, pisceans often feel very isolated, misunderstood and like there's no one out there for them (although they are isolated and misunderstood for different reasons than scorpios are).  Pisceans are looking for lovers who exist on the same plane as them.  Scorpios are these lovers.  Scorpio and pisces are two sides to the same coin.

Answer 10

I'm a pisces and my husband's a Scorpio.  I love him with everything I am.  I've never known my husband to be cold until recently.  But he learned, and all Scopio's will have to learn, that trying to push the one you love away just to see if they'll come closer will eventually backfire.  My husband gave up on pushing me away, and now he's back being my sweetheart.  It's hard to love a Scorp. but when you pass all the tests that y'all put us through...it's so worth it.  BUT, mind games and push and pull "tests" should never be in a relationship.  Then you will be loved.

Answer 11

that is because you are not compatible with air signs!

scorpio is best with:

pisces, virgo, capricorn, and cancer.

cancer and pisces are fellow water signs who will have deep understanding and unspoken agreement with you on a soul level.

capricorn and virgo are earth signs. you will be drawn to them and they to you once you get talking to one. the differences between you will pull you in and keep you stuck on each other, despite your negative traits.

the virgo and the pisces see scorpios stubborn fixed quality as a stable reliable source of strength. they will lean on scorpio for support, advice, and as a backing for their many changing ideas and feelings. scorpio will decide for these two and will continue on with what should be upheld.

cancer and capricorn are cardinal signs. they initiate and get things started. they are leaders and will anjoy scorpios fixed nature as being reliable, predictable, and steady. scorpio will always give them advice and stick to it instead of driving these cardinal signs nuts with varying and changing opinions.

cancer and pisces are moody as well and will understand.

capricorn and virgo are earth signs and can be cold hearted and cruel themselves. they can be hate filled and have a dark side. they will understand this side of you as well, even if they are not that way, they will understand.

your intuition is shared with your fellow water signs. they act off of their feelings and not rational thought. and they are usually right! the water signs live to feel, so you can never feel too much for them.

the earth signs down feel at all. they keep their emotions in check and your over feeling will compensate for them and teach them to emote a little while their ice nature will sooth your soul and teach you to detach a little and keep some things to yourself and tone down your moodiness as well.

as for the jealousy, manipulation, possesiveness, and other clinging natures: all 4 will either accept it or love it! sometimes we see it as immature and ill mannered nature that should be worked out of someones personality, but then there are those (many of us) who love the possesive jealous nature, because it makes us feel loved, desired, needed, and well cared about.

all 4 of these signs are best for scorpio and will understand more or less and will love and desire scorpio. for the most part they have a soul  connection with scorpio and are best for friends, lovers, family etc. all around.

the air and fire signs don't appreciate nor understand the scorpios nature. so even if you are attracted to them, keep in mind it won't work long term.

scorpio to scorpio can work very well in friendships and family, but on a romantic basis it is not a good idea. same is true for taurus. taurus and scorpio are fixed signs. that means they have that stubborn, possesive jealous nature. what happens when you put 2 people together who won't stop and will be suspicious, untrusting and won't back down, give up, or admit they are wrong? you get disaster! aquarius and leo are also fixed signs but are fire and air. so they are even worse for a scorpio.

Answer 12

You shouldn't have to feel like you need to hide your true self from anyone. :) It would be much better for you to fall inlove with a person that loves the real you unconditionally.

Answer 13

I understand how you feel. i have two scorpio friends just like this and i myself have a scorpio moon, and moon rules the emotions.. what you just describes sounds a lot like me. although i am a cancer sun, scorpio is a dominant sign and so i feel very much like one. every single emotion is felt so intensly it can be explosive and you get passionate about thigns and angry at people who do not understand you.

keep in mind it is very posible to love a scorpio believe it or not, there are many signs such as the piscean who seem really sensitive and kind but are actually drawn by your passion. i have met many scorpios in succefful relationships :)

Answer 14

Well, being a Water sign, you are bound to have a great memory (I'm Pisces. Our memories are crazy good). Yes, that does sound like your typical Scorpio: s*x crazed, manipulative, overly critical, a backstabber, jealous, cruel, hateful and so on. Being that you are a Scorpio, you love s*x and sensuality, something Air signs are not too great about actually. Your best attractions are Taurus, Leo, Capricorn and Pisces.

Know this to: Water symbols are in the mode of Feeling, meaning, we Water signs are the people you do not see very often in the real world. Like our symbols, the crab, the scorpion and the fish, you do not see these creature that often as well.

Answer 15

The Pisces female will always love the Scorpio male. she has the humility, confidence and self esteem to harness the darkside of the scorpio without losing herself. She has a way of speaking and dealing with him that no other zodiac sign would understand. She knows the biggest scorpio secret of them all and that is...its not what you say or do to a scorpio to connect with him, its what you don't say or do to a scorpio to connect with him. The ultimate partner for a Scorpio male is a silent, loyal and coureagous apprentice with a side order of bad *** and a few tricks up her sleave of her own.....that would be the Pisces women.

Answer 16

im a scorpio to and i know how u fell and it sucks

Answer 17

aww....well i have loads of scorpio friends and i LOVE them like crazy ! i dont think all scorpio's mean to be that way, i guess trust is a big thing to them. scorpios are really attractive tho, its something about them. im a sagittarius and i relli like this boy who's a scorpio....he is so sweet ! i think all scorpio's are sweet. whats not to love about you guys. dont worri, im sure alot of people love you and you just dont know it...the thing i love about people is their flaws...because it makes a person themself.

this scorpio boy i like, ive spoken to him alot and built his trust over time and he told me openly how he felt about me wich made me like him even more. =] you'll reveal your true self in time. and thers someone for everone...trust me...it may feel like there relli is no one, but let time handle things, you'll find someone. and all the scorpio's that i know (girls and boy) are gorgeous...and they have such sweet personalities.

i hope i helped a little  =D

x*x

Answer 18

I love you

Answer 19

Well I am a Scorpio and me and my Virgo boyfriend have our one month anniversary today. We are a perfect match and I love him and he loves me.