Can anyone tell me their stories on losing their virginity, and how it feels for the first time? Does it hurt?

Question

Trust me i am not thinking about having s*x anytime soon. i just really wanted to know how it feels and that stuff? do you bleed? does it hurt??

Answer 1

Just a slight sharp pain for an instant a few drops of blood on the sheet thats it.

Answer 2

i lost mine on my wedding night and i think i was just too excited and overwhelmed to feel pain and i did not bleed i do remember being sore a tiny bit the next day but nothing unbearable just like a bruise or something but we went at it for a while so that might be why and ive never had a problem after that

Answer 3

For me it did hurt a little and I bled a little bit.  And to the person who said that using tampons breaks the hymen, that is not true.  I use tampons and I bled my first time having s*x and it hurt, and medical experts have said that tampons will not affect the hymen.

Answer 4

For me it hurt.  I did bleed a little afterwards but nothing really bad just a little bit.

For my best friend- it didnt hurt at all and no bleeding.

just different for everyone

Answer 5

It didn't hurt at all for me. I didn't bleed either. He had a really small p***s though.

Answer 6

Well....I was abnormally young, and really, really drunk. I don't count that as my first time. I count the time that I can actually remember. It didn't hurt, and it felt weird at first, just awkward, but it got better.

Answer 7

It all depends. Each person is different. The majority of the girls that I have spoken to about this says it hurt a bit, other say it doesn't hurt and some say it really hurt. I guess it all depends on how sensitive you are to pain.Also if you have used tampons, You should have already broke your hymen so the pain associated with that will not affect you. Also a lot of girls feel pain not because of this but is that they are too tense.This will make their v****a very tight and dry and the friction of the p***s sliding in and out will be painful.

Answer 8

I was 18 it was with my closest male friend who was 21..........

It didn't feel good,it wasn't romantic,it hurt a little,and I didn't bleed.If  I could take it back,I would,and I would've waited for someone I loved.

Answer 9

For me it hurt for the first 9 times, it hurt like, eh have you ever stretched your ears?, kinda like that.

I didn't bleed from the s*x I bled from other stuff.

First time it isn't good, I just said ow alot.

Its awkward, i ddnt know where to look.

But I wouldn't trade in the awkward fumbling memoryfor anything, it makes me smile.

When you do decide to do it, make sure your ready, and make sure your with a boy you trust and hopefully love.

Hope this helps.

Answer 10

Both my hubby and I were virgins on our wedding night - lol, so you can image how nervous we were!!!! I'll be honest, it HURT really bad for the first - oh, 5 times. It felt uncomfortable for the next 5 times. And after that, it felt good, then it's gotten better and better and better every time! lol

I really suggest you wait until marriage - it really IS the best way to go!

Answer 11

For my first time, it really really hurt and I did bleed a fair amount.

It varies for different girls though.

Answer 12

for me it hurt a lot, and i bled a little bit but not a lot.

the guy i lost it too was fairly big and he was rough so that contributed to the pain i guess.

Answer 13

I was fortunate and was with a man who loved me (eventually was my husband until he died).  His gentleness, foreplay, and the use of a lubricant, and it was very pleasureable.  There was a litte pain at first entry, with just a trace of blood, but not very much.  I was sore the next few days, and we kept taking our time.  I can't imagine going through that in the back of a car, thinking I'd get caught.  It would not have been good at all in that case.