Can bartender/owner be faithful in relationship?

Question

Ive been dating my boyfriend for two years and we live together. We have had problems in the past when i was in the process of moving in when he cheated on me when he was working at a bar and than later had his ex visit him when he was working. We've moved on, I think. But now he is opening a his own bar in a couple of months and I am worried if he will continue to be faithful? Is it possible? I can't think of one bar owner who is? He's going to have drunk girls throwing themselves at him because he owns the place and I don't know if he'll make another mistake. I've brought it up to him and he just shrugs it off with hes done being stupid and he just wants to make money but he doesnt seem sincere.

Answer 1

Well, I don't know him so I can't be certain.

But from personal experience, starting a business is tough.

It's hundreds times harder than just getting a regular job. You'll be busy 365 days in a year. And have to be working even when you're at home.

So I doubt he'll have time and energy to think of those things.

But hey, if he's really lucky and making millions in the first month, than forget what I said. ;-)

Answer 2

I have seen it happen a couple times.  However, it didnt go without its trials and tribulations.  You are constantly battling the alcohol, the ex's and the temptation.  Some guys are addicited to this attention....I know from personal experience.  Its a tough thing to be faithful and once you cheat, it fills you relationship with alot of doubt.  This eats away until that big blowup where both of you put it all out in the open.  Maybe it helps, but most of the time, I had to go a seperate way.

Good luck!

Answer 3

The owner of the bar that I go to sometimes is always hitting on women when his wife is not around and I know of two girls that have had s*x with him recently.  I think your boyfriend will have a lot of opportunity to cheat and sooner or later he will give in to the temptation.

Answer 4

Even if he really, really, really, really loves you, and you are the most perfect person (for him) he has ever met....you have already proved to him that he can cheat on you and that you will take him back anyway.

Think about that...