Can being with him make me happy when I'm not? Interesting. Please help!?

Question

I'm a junior in high school, and I don't like high school at all. Ever since my freshman year, my high school experience has basically sucked. My sophomore year was bad too. Now I'm a junior and I'm so scared that this year will be like the past 2 years. No matter what I do, no matter how nice I am, no matter how hard I try, something goes wrong and I end up getting screwed.

There is this guy that I like. I think that if something happens with this guy, and we become friends or go out, I can truly get/be happy. But is this possible, to be happy with this guy enough to not care about the people at school and make me happier?

Answer 1

well at least liking someone at school will give your more motivation to actually go to school and maybe enroll in some extra curricular activities.

Then you will meet new people and make friends.  It might turn out great after all..

Good luck

Answer 2

you really cant answer this kind of question you just gotta see what happens.  you might as well try to hang out with him since if your already unhappy what do you have to lose if hes not interested.

Answer 3

Give it a chance...The way you are talking about your previous high school experiences, you don't have much at risk.  

Answer 4

you should rely on yourself to make you happy, not just other people.

is it academics or the social aspect of high school turning you off?  perhaps you should do a little self-exploration to see what the core of your dilemma is.

when in doubt, pick up a self-help book.  sounds cheesy, but it's a starting point.

Answer 5

Get high!

Answer 6

You could be I think, if he makes you happy it's bound to rub off around you. Happiness attracts more happy people and that will probably make your life happier. I don't know exactly what your experiences have been but, I'm sure they'll get better soon, especially if you're thinking on the positive instead of the negative. If you ask the guy out and he says no, think of it this way. He was never good enough for you and hey, it's his loss.  

Answer 7

NO WAY! I know it may seem that way right now but only YOU can make yourself TRULY HAPPY.  Don't depend on anyone else to make you that way.  Make the last couple of years in high school memorable.  The situation will only be as fun as you make it.

Good luck!

Answer 8

.no