Can conditional love and unconditional love exist at the same time?

Question

Can conditional love and unconditional love exist at the same time?

Answer 1

For men, yes.

Answer 2

Only on the condition that love be unconditional :)

Answer 3

Conditional love, which flows only when love is acknowledged, isn't love. It's judgment.

Answer 4

i dont know.

but love not comes with conditions,love is unconditional

love is compramise,love is intignity.

when u think u can exiest than ur love also exiest.

Answer 5

...yes, can it exist within the individual...YES...

...i can eat and drink at each meal and still have a snack...

...such be conditional and unconditional love...

...how one lives his/her life is NO mystery...why speculate and dream...life is real, live it in the moment  and enjoy...

Answer 6

Well the answer depends lot upon the person, his perception, his control over his senses, etc, etc and if he is a true human being he would definitely be unconditional lover.

Answer 7

No, If love is conditioned then it cannot be love. If love is 'conditioned' then it is mistaken for lust, Dependency, convenience etc. It isn't love.

Love is something that stays even if you grow to dislike someone-If it is real(unconditioned) then it will never go away no matter what you think of a person. Love is not something you control therefore it is not possible to make it conditional.

Answer 8

It seems like a contradiction to me . If you condition something how can it also be unconditional ? Perhaps your question searches for an intermediate state which I have no idea but I will be reading other answers anxiously .

Answer 9

YES at times

Answer 10

I wish you could edit your question and be more specific -- give the context of it.

Generally, the answer is 'no," because it is a big contradiction.

Let me explain...

  

You can either:

1. Love

2. Not Love

Can you love and not love at the same time?

No!  

Let's say  you love at 1:00pm and then stop loving at 4:00pm and go back to loving at 5:00 pm .... this is proves that it is conditional only.

Unconditional LOVE is non-stop.

Now you must get your defnition of LOVE straight.

When you love a child unconditionally, no matter what they do, you continue to love them.   Now, if they are doing something wrong, that doesn't mean that you have to put up with it or not be angry.  You can be angry at their actions but it doesn't mean you stop loving them.

Answer 11

dont think so

Answer 12

"NO"

Answer 13

Unconditional Love is not real, would you still love it/them if they tried to kill you or broke your heart, made your life a living h**l, or anything bad, no you wouldn't, dont act like your life is perfect with your shared unconditional love, its not.

I love my boyfriend to death, but if he cheated on me, id hate him to death, wouldnt you?

Answer 14

No, they are conflicting states of being.  Its like saying someone could have killed somebody, but not killed them at the same time.

Answer 15

yes if there are two people in your life and you are honest with one and not honest with another..i mean you love one unconditionaly and love another conditionaly

Answer 16

yes it do exists.when u love more than one .there another way too.when u love it does not mean u love and accept every thing and whatever thing they do or think.life it self is conditional and at the same time un conditional.does a fathers love to his children conditional or fully un conmditional.a conditional love in the beginning can get transformed into unconditional at a latterdate and vice versa.

Answer 17

To me it seems unlikely that a person capable of unconditional love will bestow the same emotion conditionally, but theoretically, yes, they can exist at the same time if there are more than one person loved. I mean, there can be unconditional love for one person and conditional love for another. But if there is only one person in question, well, if there are are conditions in that love, then that love can not be unconditional, can it? If you ask me, I don't think conditional love is love at all.

Answer 18

there is nothing known as unconditional love  

Answer 19

no,they cant occur........because if u love a person and u dont like the way he lives his lyf,then it is just an attraction .....nothing else...i will suggest to love a person as he/she is...u can change some of his/her manners but u cant change nature.......so i think u got it......

Answer 20

Feeling it for different people, yes.  Feeling it for the same person, no.  You either love someone unconditionally or you do not love that person unconditionally.  

Answer 21

love is never conditional because it means giving without any expectation from other so don't differentiate the love an accept love which you get leaving doubts and fear. but some people are there who tells you that they love you and they really don't so you should learn to perceive people's motive and there real persona. hope it will help you