Can dumped girl ask dumper about reason of dumping?

Question

Can dumped girl ask dumper about reason of dumping?

Answer 1

can she speak? type? mail? phone?    if you answered yes to any of those then, YES she can.  will she get an answer that makes her feel any better really?  will she even get an answer?  

my sis said she wouldnt spend 2 seconds on it.  wasted energy.  

Answer 2

if he/she didn't give you the reason while dumping, he/she isn't worth the time.

Answer 3

Yes, especially if you thought it was serious, You might need to ask dumper if they were onthe same level you were

Answer 4

umm, yea.

i kinda thought this was common knowledge.

Answer 5

Sure, but the reason(s) don't matter.  It will make things worse.

Dumped is dumped, it's NOT going to change anything, so don't bother explaining, just move on and forget about it.

Answer 6

Yes, it would help her move on. It really must suck if you get dumped and you haven't a clue why.

Answer 7

of course

Answer 8

Of course. absolutely. just ask, well, i respect your decision, but what is the reason,  i thot we had a good thing going on between us or sumthin like that

Answer 9

haha, that Q was confusing at first..but yeah! They have a right to know!

Answer 10

yes! If you're reasonable. If he didn't tell in the first place though, he's prolly not worth your time...

but just say "look i'm not trying to win you back or anything, I just want to know what I did that made you want to get rid of me."   and if you really want to know, he'll probably tell you. probably harsher than you want though, and you'll never know if he's actually telling the truth. you might be better off just not knowing.  

Answer 11

Of course. But that doesn't mean you'll get a satisfactory answer.  

Answer 12

You could, but I bet it would probably lead to a fight

Answer 13

sure, you have the right to ask...but he also has the right not to answer.

  What does it matter, he's either likes someone else or just doesn't feel the same anymore. either way, he's doing the right thing, being honest.

Answer 14

Definitely do it! It might help you in future relationships.

Answer 15

yes, i would think your entitled to an explanation.

Answer 16

yeah you can. but odds are he wont wanna talk to you about it. but you have every right to ask. But know just cause he gives you a reason it wont change that your not together anymore and it wont make you feel any better. :[